no female is feeling me at all, and its really getting to me and winding me up...i have low moods and anxiety, and depression and its just making it worse
2006-09-12 05:43:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Maybe you are trying too hard. Women don't like needy, desperate guys.
Oh, and try putting on a REAL pic of you so we can see what you really look like! No woman wants to date a man she hasn't even seen a picture of!
2006-09-12 18:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by ashcatash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low moods require medical treatment and so does anxiety. depression is a crippling factor when trying your luck with the ladies. i would recommend that you steer clear of these matters until at such time you are able to make pumping loads of semen into the female anatomy a high priority rather than an outlet for you to vent your mental health issues. . . the gender role behind the cyborg-persona is only subjectively male or female. every cyborg user is gender-neutral for the purpose of on-line communications. the ultimate role of my-space is to represent yourself. plenty-offish is pure trash, brother! the emotional man is no kind of man for the modern dating scene. you have to let go! be free. . .
2006-09-12 15:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to find someone on-line can be a frustrating experience. You could be Mr. Perfect and have your stuff all together and still not generate any interest. It takes time and a positive attitude. If one is not interested then move on, don't get mad, don't get down, just move on to something better. When one door closes, another door opens.
What is your rap? Are you coming on too strong, are you saying the wrong things that are deal-breakers? Go slow. Most females on the 'net are not looking for fast action -- they are looking to connect with someone for a quality relationship. If you are not speaking this same language then you will not succeed. So present yourself and let them get to know you and you get to know them and take it slow, real slow. It takes a long time to find someone. Don't be in a hurry to find happiness as happiness will find you if you give it time.
2006-09-12 12:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Steve P 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you being serious? i really can't tell. but if you are then maybe you are just saying the wrong things to women when you are trying to get to know them. if you find a girl on myspace then just say something funny and see if she replies. you can't freak her out with a scary picture or tell her that you're depressed and stuff. that doesn't work. make your profile interesting and have a good personality. then maybe you'll meet a girl that can make you feel good. good luck. sorry i can't help ya.
2006-09-12 14:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by cramner25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the reason right there....low moods, anxiety and depression. You need to see a doctor about it before you try to date anyone. If you think that a relationship is going to make you feel better, it won't. Only YOU can make yourself happy. Other people can only enhance our own happiness.
Go see a doctor.
2006-09-12 12:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude love is suppose to find u not the other way around. i have been on my space for a while and finally i have got some ladies feelin me so be patient and let it come to u plus ur way of approach always matters and keep it original and there is more than one person outhere made just for u.desperation wont get u know where and by the way there aint no such thing as instant gratification...... best of luck and good wishes..... Happy Dating.
2006-09-12 12:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by jeda_king 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your avatar isn't that scary, but I think that on sites like that people want to see a picture of your face to feel more like they know who they're talking to. If you like that avatar then you hold out for a girl that likes him too, but if she's going to have much conversation you'll have to post up your real photo as well.
2006-09-12 20:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by strgoddss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey whats up? I'm a girl and I'm talking to ya, the picture you have on here is a little.... well.... scary. Woman don't usually go for the monster lovin type of guys. lol, in any case it takes time to get to know people. Don't get discouraged, woman are weird sometimes.Just be yourself, just maybe not so scary...by the way I saw your other question and I'm very noise sensitive too and I don't know why, It's not loud noises as much as it is noises that just wont stop, that can drive me nuts!!!! Anyway, have a good one, bye. and good luck!!!
2006-09-12 12:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by skipper 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Step 1: see a doctor about depression
Step 2: go out to a bar/restaurant and meet women.
2006-09-12 13:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by Zero Z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you a 40yo man looking for 13yolds on myspace? That could be the problem...
Joking aside, you are pushing people away with your increasingly negative attitude. You must adopt a more useful attitude. Love yourself for a while and then start trying to hook up with someone else.
2006-09-12 12:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋