What would you do,if one of the family member upset you?
2006-09-12 05:38:52 · 11 answers · asked by none 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Go to that person, talk to him/her, tell them what is bothering you and hopefully you can work it out. Sometimes you get family like I have that cannot be reasoned with and we had to walk away from them for a time. Not pleasant, but necessary.
2006-09-12 05:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by barbie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not too good at face-to-face communication so I would write up a letter. Make sure you don't attack by using "I" instead of "you".
Definitely, write or talk to the person explaining what upset you and how you would like this to be resolved.
Good luck!
2006-09-12 12:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Shaana 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Understand the reason for the upset. Decide whether you should talk it over with them. If not, then ignore it and forget about it.
2006-09-12 12:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to calmly discuss it with that person privately. If that isn't successful, I'd just drop it and go on with my life. Sometimes you just have to agree to disagree. If, however, it was a parent I would talk with them and see if I'd done something to provoke this situation. And if I had, I'd apologize and try to do better.
2006-09-12 12:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many times I just let it go.I'm sure there are many things I do to upset them.If it's big enough I talk it over with them.
2006-09-12 12:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by eva b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't speak to most of my family because they are all stupid men!
I only talk to my mom. When she upsets me, I just hang up on her.
2006-09-12 12:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd try talking to them, try to resolve the issue. Leaving the issue only allows it to resurface again in the future.
2006-09-12 12:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by val h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to that person and tell them what you are feeling and how it affects you. ask them for their side and calmly discuss it between both of you and try to settle the problem, family is important to have.
2006-09-12 12:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talik it over. give them a chance to, apologise.
2006-09-12 13:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick them out of the house
2006-09-12 12:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jay Mariotti 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋