this way about anyone before....wat should i do>
2006-09-12 05:38:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't love your boyfriend. Whenever you are in a relationship that is new you get all sorts of different feelings that you have never felt before, but it isn't love. You don't want to rush into things to fast and get hurt worse in the end. Whenever people fall for another they always fall hard and it hurts like hell to get back up and try again. But everyone does it and then in their next relationship they think they are in love and do the same thing over and it never works out just because they don't take it slow for love to come into the relationship. Love is a word that shouldn't just be said to someone, it should also be felt when you look into their eyes. People these days are expressing "love" but they really are not in love with the person they are with, but they still tell them that they are. But the best advice i can tell you is to take it slow and remember if you go to fast you will fall hard on your face and it will hurt worse than the last! But good luck!
2006-09-12 05:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Shooting Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not saying that there cannot be love at first sight, however loving him this soon is a big mistake. During the so-called "honeymoon" of the relationship, many people feel love right away, because everything is so new and nice. Give it a few months to learn more about him. His habits, his insights, etc. This is why 22 year olds get married so soon and divorced by 27. You have to get to know the person inside and out over a period of time.
2006-09-12 12:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me i know how ya feel if you love him and i mean truely love him you will know it right away...if you cant talk to anyother guys because you know that they couldnt measure up to him you know its true..youre in love! The down side of being in love is losing him...when that time comes it is the worst thing ever! just ask him how he feels about you! say "i feel really close to u and i am afraid because ive never felt like this before, honestly i love u and i wana know if u feel the same way!" "there is no right or wrong answer just be honest" and some advise on how to keep ur relationship good and not lose him..always be honest and make sure he is too and always have trust if there is no trust it will not last! give trust and recieve trust! good luck and i hope things go well for ya'll!
2006-09-12 12:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think you love him, tell him. Though this is honestly something that shouldn't be taken lightly. I personally would give it more time and see what comes out of it. I thought I loved my boyfriend after a few months and then finally after a year I really did. There are all different levels of caring about someone. Love is a very extreme one. Love is loving someone for exactly who they are... not loving everything about them necessarily, but loving them for who they are. Does that make sense?
2006-09-12 12:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by amber_cromer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have a talk with your boyfriend sounds to me like you have an open relationship where you can say just about anything to each other, I would suggest sitting down with him and ask him how he feels about you, and then explain to him that you really really care for him. Could be lust though its really to early to say if its true love or not, but some ppl believe in true love at first sight, but sit with him find out how he feels about you first just do not say you love him, could scare him away then your left with a broken heart!
2006-09-12 12:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time..right now you're just infatuated...there's no way that you can truly love someone after only 1 month! Love is a very strong word that is used WAY too often now.....love takes time..and 1 month is not nearly long enough. Don't rush it!!
2006-09-12 12:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit and enjoy the ride, why do you have the need to do anything? Just give things time...rushing into things can be the biggest killer of relationships....And you dont want to pressure him so early in the relationship into saying he loves you back...even if he does love you, he might think its too soon to say it..
2006-09-12 12:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by TrueSoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't ever tell a guy that i love him first, i've had 2 boyfriends before and i was totally inlove with them both and they were the first to come out and tell me, take it easy and slow, don't fall in love too strongly, this is my best advise, and always be with a guy who loves you more than you love him, best of luck
2006-09-12 12:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica Simpson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't come to a conclusion so fast.Keep seeing each other.I don't think in one month anybody can decide whether he or she got the right love.It may takes years sometimes.
2006-09-12 12:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might be a bit too early to tell him that you love him...maybe something like 'i adore you' or 'i really like you' or 'i am falling in love with you'. just not 'i love you'. People get scared off if you say that too soon.
2006-09-12 12:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋