I have a crush on a good friend of mine.She's straight but she's a tomboy and alot of guys and girls like her but i like her. What should i do??
2006-09-12 05:35:23 · 25 answers · asked by Lu-Lu - hopelessly romantic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tomboys still have hormones though. Even though they are tough on the outside, there is a budding female underneath that requires open communication, genuine friendship and a sharing of values.
The best way to appeal to a person of this type is to go out on the same level as she is and then when you two connect, explain to her that you need the side of you that is much more sensual. The feminine side of her will come out when she realizes that the two of you connect in a very good way. When she admits to this, she will also tell you how much she craves it too. She will also admit her sexuality too.
It takes time, and patience. It doesn't happen overnight either.
2006-09-12 05:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Turning a straight person gay is just as hard, and just as wrong as turning a gay person straight... Would you want a guy to keep trying to get with you, and never giving up until you broke down and just let him?
Of course, you can always let her know you're interested, but the simple fact of the matter is that if she's not about it, she's not about it, and in that case, you'd best just look for someone else.
2006-09-12 05:58:53 · answer #2 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person is either straight or gay. Just be her friend and leave it at that. Even in the straight world a person is not attracted to everyone they meet and can't be forced to be. I am sure that just because someone is gay they also are not attracted to every single person they meet. Be careful or you could lose a good friend.
2006-09-12 05:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,you can't turn anyone into something they don't want to be,so move on,you also sound quite young so how about just giving your self some more time to decide on your sexuality,i don't mean to be unkind here,but if you are gay would you like someone to change you into being straight?
2006-09-12 05:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by amber_xx66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh... let me ask you this; did someone turn you gay, or were your born that way? I think I can safely assume that your answer is that you were born so. My point? Unless you are a god of some kind, you'd better find someone else to persue.
2006-09-12 05:40:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's strictly straight and decided in this then well I don't see what you can do. But if you tell her how you feel and maybe she sits on it a while she may realize she could feel similairly about you.
2006-09-12 05:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by amber_cromer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are enough freeking gay people out there for you, leave the straight ones alone. Thats why I have NO gay friends, because they are out there to convert us. GOOD LUCK, I still believe your type needs to go back in the closet where ya's belong.
2006-09-12 05:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Leave her alone!
A true friend does not try to change the other.
Maybe you are the one that should consider becoming straight?
Peace!
2006-09-12 05:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person is born being gay - you can't make him/her gay.
If being her friend is the best you can have, then accept it and cherish her friendship.
2006-09-12 05:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to her and tell her how you feel. You never know if she feels the same way, but is just shy!
2006-09-12 05:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by qtiebabie06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋