given? Like for instance---People dishing it out but not being able to take it? Giving positive and constructive critisium, but then they get pissed and report you? Don't you just hate a tattle tale? Where I live, we do not rat people out! We handle it! Would anyone like to share their feelings on this matter?
2006-09-12 05:32:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Make note that you're on Y!A. This place is a melting pot and has it all - including the rats you mention.
The whole site is out of control (in case you haven't noticed)
2006-09-12 05:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by -:¦:-SKY-:¦:- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People react strongly to criticism when their own self-esteem is low and they already criticize themselves on this topic. I have been defensive a lot in my life, and I know I have over-reacted many times. People with low self-esteem also have a tendency to be critical of others in order to try to make themselves feel better. The best thing you can do for a person like this is to try to find ways to be complimentary and kind, rather than criticize them in return. I don't thnk there is such a thing as "constructive criticism" unless a person asks for your honest opinion. Only then can they be open to receive what you say, and even then they may become defensive.
2006-09-12 12:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Teddie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person should have mention it to you first and see if you were willing to help him with his problem - he/she did not so that person is the one with the problem!@
2006-09-12 12:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by nswblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snitches get stitches-lol
2006-09-12 12:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its real.
2006-09-12 13:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋