You know how every man says they do want a girl who plays games.I have gone one 3 dates with this guy he has canceled on me 3 time and yesterday I was at work and he said he was in the parking lot and to come out. I went on break to meet him. I called him when I was in the parking lot he did not pick up. I went back to work. He did not call me back all day. Today he has texted me twice. Once to say good morning.The other to ask if I was busy.I haven't responded. I am I playing games if I don't pick because he did not pick up yesterday?
I like him but, I am tried of him canceling and yesterday was beyond calling and telling me can't make it. And I tried to tell him not to make plans he can't keep. He got mad because things happen.
How long should not talk to him? Should I tell him I am not talking to him?He just texted me "I guess you don't want to take me. Take care and hope you the best" Should tell him whats wrong?That I need a man who is reliable.
2006-09-12 05:13:22 · 15 answers · asked by Nice girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to just be done with him. I had a guy do the exact same thing to me. He'd make plans, then break them, then send me little messages here and there just to keep me on a string. Then when I would try to not answer his calls or messages, he'd text me saying "I guess you don't want to talk to me anymore...blah, blah, blah. Well, I gave him too many chances and he ended up being an a** so just forget him and move on. If he really wanted to see you, he'd make the time. He's messing with your head!
2006-09-12 05:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If my boyfriend would do that to me...and he has done something similiar to you problem, I would not call him either. I would not call it playing games..I call it GETTING BACK! I can not stand it when my boyfriend does not call me after I have called him more then two times...I mean that just pisses me th e fu++ off so i would return his favor and not call him back...You are doing right by not calling him back, well not texting him back....One might say Two wrongs dont make a right, but I think in this case it does because maybe if you do the same things that he is doing to you and point it out that he do the same things, maybe he would then stop playing his fuc*in gmes with you! Dam* You cant live with a man and dam* cant live without him.
2006-09-12 12:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by maggette8553 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the one playing games. He is immature and young. If you dont call him just for the purpose to get back at him then you are just as immature as he is DOnt call him b/c he is a loser and needs to act more mature to be with you. remember if he thinks he has the upper hand he will use it to his advantage. You have to the set the stage for what you expect from him. Tell him that what he does is immature and he will never get you by acting this way. If he decides to not chill wit you then its better off for you b./c there will just be more drama if he continues to act this way. If he straightens up then you know you have him where you want him. Remember, the average man will go as far as you let him go. If he walks all over you, its b.c u let him!
2006-09-12 12:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by BI - Health 1s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, this guy is a waste of skin. HE is playing games not you. Him canceling so many times and getting all bent when you have stuff going on....that is just a imature brat. He needs to grow up and learn to be respectful of people's time and he needs to stop playing games.
No you do not need to let him know what you want or need, he should know this by now.......you aren't 11. Listen dear and remember this.....Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't waste their time on you....
Cut your loses, pop your callar and move on sweetheart....NEXT!!!
2006-09-12 12:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by annette s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why play his games if you hate them so much?
My advice is, this is why men hate women, and women hate men. Try being real with him, see what that does. Honest you will be suprised how much a man respects a woman who can just be herself, open and honest.
Dont be like every other woman out there, be yourself. And good luck.
2006-09-12 12:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by misskaykai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he's the game player. You need to ditch this guy. If I were you I'd tell him - you're right I don't want to talk to you, you've wasted enough of my time and I don't have time for someone I can't rely on!
2006-09-12 12:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by whoamihere32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you do need a man who is reliable and no you are not playing games..i know becasue my last bf was the exact same way i always had to go see him he always had excuses to not come see me....and ya know what? it didnt last even though i was crazy about him so get out now before it gets REALLY hard
2006-09-12 12:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From you question it seems like he is the one playing games, you need to cut him loose, he likes leaving you hanging from a string. Don't answer any more find you someone who you can count on.
2006-09-12 12:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ms T in GI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do so much better than him huni he' being twisted if he keeps cancelling you can only go so far with the "treat em mean keep em keen" routine
2006-09-12 12:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to cut back on the coffee!
2006-09-12 12:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by matt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋