My ex broke up with me a month ago. He is the one that came after me, persued me and everything. Well, we were friends for 5-6 weeks before becoming bf and gf. I really really like him. Well and month ago he broke up with me and told me he knew it wasn't gonna work between us and he cut it completely off. He doesn't call me nothin. Lots of things are going on and I don't understand. HE still has our picture up. He hasn't taken it down or moved it. Alright, we'll I've run into him a couple times and he comes up to me to say Hey. One time I ran into him at a restaurant and I was sitting with guys. He walked by our table 4 times and didn't say wsup..he was with a bunch a people. Also, my guy friends were sayin that when he left, he was trippin out outside and kept lookin back in and walked away. Here is the kicker..just a week ago he got a tattoo that I introduced to him and wrote out for him, . It's his mom's name in my lauguage.why would he do this?? He still hasn't calle
2006-09-12 04:51:05 · 10 answers · asked by ConfusedK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His mom really likes me and talks to me every once in a while. That's not the problem...
2006-09-12 05:19:22 · update #1
I'm an independent woman and am very mature for my age...just that I really like him and thought this was going somewhere and he toatlly cut me off. There are things that are telling me to hold on for a bit longer and things saying no...my birthday is in 3 weeks and I don't know what to expect...
2006-09-12 05:21:50 · update #2
scared... could be he isn't mature enough to be in the relationship... either way, it's his problem hun..not yours. Leave it be and don't go looking for something that isn't lost and doesn't want to be found. Chin up.
2006-09-12 05:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cares....he's afraid. Fear makes people behave in ways that go against logic and common sense. Chances are that he is being put under pressure by friends which would make it hard for him to have said anything to you in the restaurant with his friends looking on. I'm sure the tattoo that you designed for him has a great deal of significance for him, both being that is his mother and that it is from you.
2006-09-12 12:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by miss_in4med 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is waiting for you to call. After all this is a new day and age in which it is OK for a girl to call a guy. It sounds like you both are still crazy about one another. Good Luck.
2006-09-12 12:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by luckyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it and him go. You are not a toy to be played with. He wants you but does not want the commitment and now expects you to come back to him and fix his mistake. You will be better off moving on. Time heals all wounds, trust me on this. All youi are doing if you take him back is giving him permission to treat you like a boomerang down the line.
2006-09-12 11:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by Toxic Buddah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love
2006-09-12 11:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Oyesiri E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds psychotic. Maybe his mother doesn't like you and doesn't want her baby boy to be with you. Maybe it isn't him at all but his parents infuencing him and controlling his life. Maybe he's a momma's boy. If he is a momma's boy then he's right it won't work between you two. Best thing you can do there is let him go and play footsie with his mother instead.
2006-09-12 12:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This boy seems kinda crazy. He seems either confused or extremely jealous. Do you have a lot of guy friends? Maybe he wanted you to be totally about him and no one else.
2006-09-12 11:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like "I dont want but no one else can have" syndrom. Almost controling.
Forget about it. If he really cared, he would call ya. :O his loss, hun!
2006-09-12 11:53:52 · answer #8 · answered by Miz_Kassandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's waiting for you to call.
2006-09-12 12:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jessicer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has issues stay away.
2006-09-12 11:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by >>monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋