2006-09-12 04:46:26 · 22 answers · asked by SallyJ 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
get over it, taka a vacation it takes time and believe me it's not thed end of the world
2006-09-12 04:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by NIKKI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a few days,how do you know you won't get back together? If you don't,then it's not the end of the world,it's the beginning of a new start for you. I know it seems bad at the moment,but trust me,it will get better. If you are'nt meant to be together,you can't change it or dwell on it. Get in touch with friends.You don't have to go out yet if you don't want to,but have a girl's night in,have a moan about men,do each other's hair.make-up.Force yourself,and you'll be laughing by the end of the night.There's a world full of guys waiting to meet you.
2006-09-12 11:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can stop expecting to "get over" a lost relationship in a few days first. It is normal to feel sad and unhappy at the loss of someone you held dear. Allow yourself to experience the sadness, keep telling yourself it is a normal thing and just go with the feelings...they come back to haunt you later if you don't. After a week to ten days, it is time to start picking up the pieces, get out of the house, if only to go for a walk. Go to movies, start socializing again...gradually get back into living your life and let go the feelings for the loss. Nobody likes to feel sad, nobody likes to accept loss...but it is all part of living on this planet and feeling sad, accepting loss and moving on is what living is about. Allow yourself to mourn or you will never accept the loss, and never accepting the loss will color all your relationships down the line. Eventually you end up alone and bitter.
2006-09-12 12:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a few days? You are just starting the hardest part. You need to give yourself ample time to get over it. Do your very best to avoid contact with him and don't mention him if you can stand it. Keep very, very busy. Whether you're working a lot or putting extra effort into your studies and/or sports, don't give yourself a spare moment of thought for the next couple months. That's the only thing that kept me sane during my breakup. That, and my friends.
2006-09-12 12:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of why you broke up with him, I mean really think! Was it the right thing to do,or were you just trying to get your way over some stupid thing. If it was right stay tight with it, and move on it was for the better. If you were wrong tell him an maybe he will be happy that you really love him. If not you just learn a lesson in life an move on . High hoe, high hoe it's off to life we go!
2006-09-12 12:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by play dough 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just grieving a loss. Go through it and let go.
There will be many occasions in life where loss affects you but if you go through the grieving process (without wallowing in it) this is a good preparation
Mostly in these situations we are really grieving what might have been and not reality. This is not to day it doesn't hurt but we have to move on.
2006-09-12 11:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by mjdp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I remember my 1st Love, I was just 16 when he broke my heart. We as humans all go through it at one point in our lives. I won't lie, it will take time to heal. But trust me you will. Try doing things with you girlfriends, try to keep busy, even if you aren't up to it.take down all the momentos you shared with him so there isn't a constant reminder. Good Luck sweetie, you will be just fine in a short time!!! I promise!!!
2006-09-12 12:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by stacy_lynn1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nobody is worth Dying for
my gf left me after 10 years of affair .i felt bad cried for 2 years but im still alive and have got abetter wife one day u 2 will get a better guy trust me
im not kidding
2006-09-12 11:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you broke up with him, you shouldn't be so upset! There will be other guys in your life..to think you want to die over some guy?...get serious!!
2006-09-12 11:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
now why ya wanna go 'n do dat???
Get real girl...that **** will soon pass and won't even think about the fool. It will take a while, depending on how soon you are willing to release the hurt...time iz a mutha! I don't recommend wearing your friends out with that mess either...but in your pathetic case, I think you need not be left alone.
2006-09-12 11:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seek God's healing. Next time don't get so involved with a boyfriend and save yourself the heartache and respect yourself.
2006-09-12 12:30:38 · answer #11 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋