though. what should i do? it hurts to see him move on and drop me just like that. i miss him. and i know he misses me, but hes married. he calls me and tells me about their marriage problems and his son. it hurts but i can't seem to tell him to stop calling.
2006-09-12 04:41:27 · 6 answers · asked by bonbon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm going through the same situation right now. My ex isn't married but does have a child. We were together for three years and talked about marriage and kids but it never happened. Right now I am engaged to be married in Dec. I have filled my free time with hobbies and things to do to get him off my mind. I still do have feelings for him and it hurts to know he has a child now. But girl, you have to move on. And it's not going to be easy. Just try talking to a friend of yours. Seems to me that if he's calling you "bragging" about his marriage.etc. then he might be trying to rub it in. So just don't answer his phone calls. You have to get over the fact that he's with someone else. But it will take some time! Good Luck!
2006-09-12 04:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by yourqueenofall 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can tell him to stop calling. The truth is that you two are on the way to having an emotional affair, not physical, but that is the next step.
For his wife's sake, you need to break all communication with him, and tell him why you don't want him in your life anymore.
Girl, this man is married, and it is not your place to help him with his marital problems- you need to lay off.
Move on to a man that is available. How would you feel if your husband was talking about your marriage to another woman, I doubt you would think that is okay.
2006-09-12 11:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Dre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over him. Move on also. Go out and find someone and get your mind off him. As long as he keeps calling you the harder it's going to get for you. The man is married!
2006-09-12 11:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Thats all you can do, he moved on you should do the same.
2006-09-12 11:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just find a picture of him, get your dildo, and then have some fun!
2006-09-12 11:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmmm...u know i am in ur exact same shoes right now and it sux. i really dunno what to tell u. i'm workin on it too.
2006-09-12 11:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋