2006-09-12 04:26:16 · 27 answers · asked by bukky b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on.
2006-09-12 04:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sheriff Liz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, people are harsh on here!!!!! I think everyone deserves a second chance or is everyone whiter than white on here??
You need to prove to him you can be trusted, which could take a while. Tell him you regret it and see if he is willing to forgive. Things might not improve and you may have to move on but at least give it a shot.
You may also need to ask yourself why you cheated though. May need some soul-searching.
One more thing, don't heed the advice on here too much as every situation is different and others people's experiences have nothing to do with your situation and should only be used for guidance.
Good luck
2006-09-12 11:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by eggy74uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really doesn't want you honey, you can't....sorry, probably not what you wanna hear. But if he's hurt and still wants you, perhaps you can work it out in time.
But be warned...similar thing happened to me - I hurt my boyfriend of 2 and a half years...we split up (my choice) then I wanted him back and he said he couldn't cos he was hurt, but he still loved me...I spent the next 2 years being used by him and taking loads of sh*t because I'd felt guilty for a mistake I'd made - needless to say it didn't end up working out and looking back I feel he ended up playing on the fact that I felt guilty.
So if he says it's over...perhaps he is doing you a favour.
Good luck x
2006-09-12 11:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you only want him back because you dont want to be alone. You obviously dont feel that good about yourself to have needed the ego boost by cheating. He obviously wasnt making you happy. If you do really love him, you will have to prove that he can trust you again, which could take a while.
2006-09-12 11:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jimbo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you betrayed him then he's very smart not to want you back. Give him one good reason why he should? Relationships survive on one thing - TRUST. By betraying him, you destroyed the trust and that can never be brought back.
Live with it and move on, because it sounds like he already has.
2006-09-12 11:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by Cardinal Richelieu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you betrayed him he will never look at you the same. If you betrayed him, think about why you betrayed him. Do you really think you are meant for him?
If you want him back you have to start from scratch (don't be disapointed if it doesn't work)... you may wanna' give him alot of time to relaxe. If you betray him again... do him a big favor and never speak to him again. I assume you love him- Lovers will sacrifice their lives for one another. Think about that.
If you like to get crazy and do things... stay single and have fun untill you are ready to settle down.
2006-09-12 11:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by spacecommy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on....... why would he want you back if you betrayed him? You obviously didn't think much of him if you betrayed him in the first place... so he should be easy for you to forget.
2006-09-12 11:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn´t want you back in his life, why do you want it?
It would be a sad life for you, there would be tears, pain.
Better look around and find some one else.
2006-09-12 11:29:16 · answer #8 · answered by Isadora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont. He deserves better and you have learned a valuable lesson in not cheating on your partners
2006-09-12 13:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by mr_scotsguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bukky, naija babe.
perhaps it time u told this guy u r sorry and b honest abt ur dealings, that's if u r serious oh, otherwise if its another game ur out to play allow this guy to move on with his life.
2006-09-12 11:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by lifejourney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go back to English class.
2006-09-12 11:28:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋