is it bad to want to have sex at the age of 15 ?

Answer 1

ok heres the deal. =) I am going to tell you what happened to me. I started having sex at 14, and really liked the guy. At 15 i had my first son. I started my first full time job the day i turned 16 and quit school, missed prom, and got my GED. Never married my sons father, and now am happily married to the man that my son calls daddy cause his was never around. I don't think that it is bad that you want to have sex, but i wouldn't recomend it. If you do choose to be sexualy active, i just pray that you will have someone (an adult, parent) that you can honestly talk to about it, and that if you do choose to do this that you will take all of the pracations that you possibly can. My life now is wonderful, but it is hard to be a single teenage mother. Please think long and HARD before you make your decision. You will be in my thoughts. Good Luck.

Answer 2

No it is not bad to want to have sex at the age 15 because your hormones are going crazy because you r in puberty. But at 15 you r not ready mentally or physically for the consequences that come with it so wait until your older and can understand what sex really means. Talk to your parents and get more information about sex. They will be shocked at first but glad in the end tha you came to the for advice.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with it . My brother is going to be 15 in Feb. He just started having sex with his steady girlfriend.. He uses protection alll the time and she is on birth control.. I wish i didnt have sex at such a young age because now that i am with someone i love i wish they were the only one.. also when i had sex young 13.. I didnt really enjoy it. the guys were immature and that was all they cared about.now that im older 24 I learned that sex isnt anything unless the person you have it with you have strong feelings for and they for you too... Believe me .. but if your going to do it then wear protection you and your partner ..all the time.. there are so many dieseses out there.. especially herpes and warts that you cant get rid of and hiv that there is no cure for.. you will eventually die from

Answer 4

It's not bad to think about it. However you have to remember as much as people hype it up, and you see all the music celebs promoting, it is not as glamorous as they make it out to be and there are serious consequences if you are not careful. STDs are way more common than you would think, and most people don't even know they have them and pass them on. Only you can decide when you want to take that step, but remember once you do and if you have regrets, you don't have to keep going down that path. It's better to wait until you can handle the responsibility involved with the repercussions (pregnancy, parenthood, trip to the clinic for STD tests, using protection &&&&&! birth control!). Never have unprotected sex with anyone unless you are in a monogomous MARRIAGE.

Answer 5

Well, where do I begin. I had sex for the first time when I was 14, do I regret it? NO! But I truly believe I was mature enough to take the good with the bad. I had a baby @ 17. I am still with the guy. If you are going to have sx please use protection, it is very important. If you need any advice just email or message me!

Answer 6

It's normal to feel like you want to. Your body is changing and you're feeling urges just like all the other kids your age.

The problem is that before you do it, you need to make sure you're educated about all of the consequences of it.

If you allow sex to become casual to you, it not only makes you more careless about it, but it loses its emotional importance and also makes you less appealing down the road because you have slept around a lot.

First, let's look at the obvious reasons not to do it.

1. There is a risk - even if you use a condom and/or birth control - of getting pregnant. The ONLY form of birth control that is 100% guaranteed is to not have sex. If you get pregnant at 15, it is highly unlikely that the boy who gets you pregnant will marry you and you will be faced with things like having to find a job, daycare, not being able to finish school, not being able to hang out with your friends, not having the freedoms that you're used to right now.

2. With more and more people carelessly having unprotected sex, disease is rampant. You have to be so careful. And condoms can only protect you so much. They cannot protect you from getting something from oral sex or even kissing.

Now on to the less obvious things...

TV and movies make sex out to be so glamorous and so wonderful. In reality, most people's earliest sexual experiences are awkward and, for the girl, painful.

Sex in and of itself is purely sensation. If you just sleep with someone for the sensation of having sex, you can get physical pleasure out of it for a temporary moment, but then the moment is gone and you have to find more and more ways of finding that empty physical gratification.

But sex with the right person is an emotionally and physically fulfilling experience.

Trust me when I say that it is worth waiting for the right person.

I'm not saying that I waited til I was married to have sex.

BUT

I AM saying that I've had sex with someone that I didnt' really love and I've had sex with someone that I loved completely and loved me back and it's like night and day.
The sex I have with my soul mate is the sex the movies TRY to portray and don't even come close.

But you don't find your soulmate over night. It takes a lot of hard work, life lessons and pain to find them and when you do, sex is amazing and absolutely worth WAITING for.

Don't do it now... just wait. Sex will still be there when you're 18. Trust me.

Answer 7

Now days kids are having sex at a young age. You have to look at all the STD's that are out here and npt to mention AIDS. Become more educated with all the things that are out here. In a small town where I am from in NC, 2 of my classmates have died within 2 year with the AIDS. It is nothing to play with. Think before you just react and do it.

Answer 8

Not bad to think about but bad to do, and believe me I know, I had a baby when I was 15 and belive me sex isn't worth it. If you are going to just PLEASE be SAFE!!!!! Young adults your age aren't ready for that type of responsibility yet, and i am not telling you this because "you are just 15" I am telling you this from experience.

Answer 9

If you aren't ready for the adult consequences of sex such as disease, HIV, unwanted pregnancy, etc you are not ready for sex. Your body is a temple and to allow some stupid boy to touch you just for kicks shouldn't be in your thinking. You are precious your body is precious and it should be guarded for a man who loves you in marriage or at least adult hood. The average girl in high school is having sex with 7 different boys. Is this how you want your body to be violated? Enjoy your life and your youth. Regard your self with high self esteem and know that you don't have to give it up. Wouldn't it be wonderful to offer your virginity to a man you will call your husband instead of some loser high school boy? Love yourself.

Answer 10

I think it's probably normal to think about such things since hormones are really active at that age. I would really encourage you to wait until you're married to the right man. I didn't wait, and I sure wish that I could go back and do things differently. It's a special thing that is meant to be saved between a man and woman or their wedding night. God Bless