meand my gf have been going out for 3 weeks now and we havnt even held hands all weve done is put our arm round one and other i really want to kiss her it will be my first kiss and i really want it to be with her but im imbarresed i know she wants to but im sure how 2 i cant just sudenley kiss her what can i do help help!!!!!!
2006-09-12 04:10:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well more than likely she wants you to kiss her. The best way to do this is find somewhere private, say a picnic somewhere nice or going for a walk somewhere nice. Then just stop walking and say you are so happy being with her and you think she is beautiful... then just go in for the kiss, make it simple, just a slow peck. From there... it will reveal itself.
2006-09-12 04:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First kisses are always a little hit/miss, even if it isn't actually the first kiss you have received but the first kiss in that relationship. A few tips that may help the situation a little bit: if it's at the end of one of your dates, let the hug last a little longer (if the two of you do hug, if you don't... do hug), just when you do start to move to end the hug, instead of letting go, don't let go and kiss her instead. But do what is comfortable for you, each of us is different. My first kiss with my first girlfriend (i still remember it 2 years later) was when we were down at the waterfront here in Toronto: sun was setting and reflecting off one of the buildings, we were sitting on a bench not too far from the water, I had my arm around her because, well to be honest I was cold and she's a lot warmer than I am most of the time... she was a little chilly too though... but the kiss came naturally, we both felt it was right at the time to let it happen... Alright I did ask right before but we still felt it was right and up until we broke up a month later she and I never asked for a kiss again, just took. But again, it will come naturally to you. I have many different situations for first relationship kisses, but they won't help as much because I was a little more confident by then. But don't worry, as I keep saying, it will come naturally to you.
2006-09-12 04:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute. Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. Cute!!
Okay back to business. Yeah the kiss. The big move. The real step forward. Okay several tips here:
Firstly, Practise, Practise, Practise, on your hand, pillow, sister (just kidding) it is really important to get it right. You don't have to be perfect though.
Secondly, use your body language to communicate the fact that you want to kiss her, glance at her lips when you speak to her, move a little closer to her, lick your lips, smile warmly at here and stare at her for a long time. You could even say "You look totally kissable right now," but if you're too shy don't.
Then move in about half the distance and wait for her to make up the distance, if she doesn't do anything, smile at her and say "You're beautiful" then you wont look like an idiot and she'll be more tempted to kiss you. It's a win win situation!
Good luck!
2006-09-12 04:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little physical contact (like holding hands, don't get too crazy) is a good way to lead up to it. At the end of an evening together or whatever, when it's just the two of you, grab both of her hands and tell her you had a great time or something like that, and when you say it look into her eyes. You'll feel the wave. You can either let it crash on you or you can ride it. Just start with a peck on the lips and see how it goes. If you pull back and her eyes are a little closed, go for the gold. Don't be shy. She is at least as nervous as you are.
2006-09-12 04:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are truly serious then the moment will come. Don't force that moment to come to soon or the relationship will not last. Everyone wants their first Kiss to come soon and be AWESOME. But don't force it. Start off by giving her a peck on the cheek if she likes that then before you apart after a day of school give her a kiss goodbye
2006-09-12 04:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by aberboychris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. It depends on your age. And then, I have never kissed anyone either, but I guess that when the moment comes, and you WILL feel it when the moment comes, just do it. You have seen it in movies, go with the flow and enjoy it. I don't think you need "planning" for something like that. Once you have started, people say, you will know exactly how to keep going.
2006-09-12 04:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't surprise her, she might freeze up and panic and you don't want that. I say let her know exactly what you want to do. You don't necessarily have to spell it out to her just get close and start with a little kiss on the cheek then give her that 'look' chances are she'll dive right in.
2006-09-12 04:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you really want to kiss her thats your first move she should take the hint and lean forward dont be embarrased enjoy the moment and enjoy her tell her shes beautiful if you really want her to take charge good luck and dont rush be yourself and be honest.
2006-09-12 04:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it or someone else will! Sometimes we need told the truth to make us get it over with. Maybe it is just too soon. Maybe she is afraid to. But you won't know til you try. Good Luck!
2006-09-12 04:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Paulda37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss her, you already said that she wants to too, so just lean in and kiss her. Kiss her good bye one day after school and hold her hands while you do it.... she will like that and it will feel special. Just lean in and kiss her. :D, young puppy love is so cute. blessed be.
2006-09-12 04:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋