We've talked on IM for about a month now, and he's really cool and interesting to talk to..he seems really school-orientated (he's a master's student) and just really... normal. I told him I want to meet, but he says we aren't 'compatible'. Problem is, we still talk and it's sort of getting my hopes up that maybe he's 'falling' for me and that we'll meet one day. By the way, he doesn't have a problem with coming here to have casual sex.. but doesn't think it'll lead anywhere else. I'm not stupid enought to do that, even despite how much I 'like' this guy. Should I try and get him to like me through IM.. or just forget about him caus he already told me how he feels?!
2006-09-12 03:45:53 · 13 answers · asked by kellz8706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him...Move on!
2006-09-12 03:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by djjjc11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him... It sounds like he's not a good match.... so watch out! Some people on these online services are out for "casual sex"... and that's it. Keep looking. And don't settle. You can do better than this! If he says "no way," don't pursue him and waste your time when that really cool, interesting, great guy who's right for you may be closer than you think. Good riddance... and good luck!
2006-09-12 10:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by bethiswriting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forget him, if you really like him as a "friend" then continue to talk to him, but as and im buddy and casual sex partner, he's a typical guy. Keep searching the right guy is out there. NEVER settle. Good luck
2006-09-12 10:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FORGET ABOUT HIM. Being a guy, I can tell you if he says he isn't interested in you in romantic, but says its OK to have casual sex, he is flat using you. Do not pass go, do not collect your hundred dollars. He is most definitely taking advantage of how you feel. He is a jerk. Casual sex ONLY works if both parties are in COMPLETE agreement, not to mention, it is still potentially dangerous.
2006-09-12 10:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by B. T. Gutowski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something really seems suspect about his motives for meeting someone on the website. I would just toss that fish back in the ocean...its not what youre looking for. Good luck...sounds like you know what you want in a relationship...i think he does too and its different in many ways.
2006-09-12 10:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, just move on. He doesn't want to do anything but have sex with you. So respect yourself and find someone else who will like you and want to date you. He isn't worth spending any more time on. You are worth more so keep on looking.
God Bless and Good luck
2006-09-12 10:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on, and let him find someone else for casual sex. Only if you like it?
2006-09-12 10:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty more corn on the cob, fish in the sea, pebbles on the beach - move on
2006-09-12 10:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Evo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, stop talking to him and maybe hell realize what a good thing he could have had.
2006-09-12 10:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by dnice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried not talking to him on IM for a while... see if he tries to contact you..... dont go giving him sex just to keep him
2006-09-12 10:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by jessicaann29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋