We have been dating for 6 weeks, things have been going great...spend a few times a week together, talk every day in some way shape or form...last week he brought me flowers to dinner and was talking very futuristic, we exchanged texts all week flirting about how much we liked each other etc....he has been kinda distant the last two days, we are going to a movie and dinner tonight. Not sure what to expect......He claims he really likes me, what would cause him to be distant, I know he is tired and getting sick...should I worry? He is going to a wedding with me this saturday
2006-09-12 03:36:17 · 9 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't rush things. He may be a little gun shy, could be going faster than he likes. Men are weird like that.
2006-09-12 03:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by to_sassy4_u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to a wedding after dating 6 weeks. That is tough. Like his life is flashing before his eyes. The wedding thing has got him to thinking. He could be wanting a serious relationship, but he does not know how to approach you. It could be that he does not want a too serious relationship and the wedding thing could send you the wrong signals. Chances are, he talked with his buddies and now he is over analyzing everything. Then again, it could be a little under the weather.
2006-09-12 10:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little space and see if anything is different Saturday. Guys sometimes overanalyze things that seem to be going too good like we're waiting for the other shoe to drop. I'd also say enjoy your dinner but don't hesitate to flirt a little and see where that goes.
2006-09-12 10:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, guys (and girls) will act distant after awhile to lure you in a bit more. You get worried, you become more attentive and it makes them feel better. Another way to look at it.....I am sick right now and don't have the energy to do anything and my gf is just standing by waiting for me to get better. Just be patient.
2006-09-12 10:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Shyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going by your questions that you have asked, you worry WAY too much. you are going to run this guy off if you dont calm down and take things in stride. Im sorry but thats the truth.
2006-09-12 10:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably something outside of the relationship that bothering him. Talk to him find out what it is. Try to help him deal with it
2006-09-12 10:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the question ? everything seems honky dorey see what happens this Saturday before u start getting worried for nothing
2006-09-12 10:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it....Maybe he's feeling sick, or he's just been really busy....Who knows?
2006-09-12 10:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, rephrase your Question more accurately!
Ciao.John-John.
2006-09-12 10:39:38 · answer #9 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋