I never was in love till i met her and now we are not together but i cant get over her
2006-09-12 03:32:14 · 18 answers · asked by pony377 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You never truly get over being in love with someone. You will always have a place in your heart for that person. Yet with time your heart will mind and you will fall in love again. It just takes a little time.
2006-09-12 03:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by ncvasarahlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest with you, you never really get over someone that you love. The pain will lessen up some as time goes on. But if it was real, you will, in some ways, always love this person. The best thing you can do, is not to dwell on it, and move on remembering all the good and the bad times you had together. And if it is truely ment to be, you will find your way back to each other. It is possible to remain friends when you have feelings like this. Maybe that will help you some. Let her know you still care and could be friends and be there for her. You never know this could move it back towards you. But most of all it will allow you to remain on good terms with her and stay in her life. GOOD LUCK to you and I hope it all works out for you.
2006-09-12 12:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Annette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, have you tried getting back together with her? I wish people would be more detailed in these things, if you're looking for good answers that are actually going to help you in any way then you need to actually describe your situation, and question. But anyways, if you can't get back together for some reason, then all I can say is TIME. I know you've heard this before, but I must say it...In time, things will ease. And you must allow yourself to grieve. Don't try to make the bad feelings go away no matter how much it hurts. It hurts a lot more in the end to bottle them up and try to fix longterm situations with shortterm fixes. You will love again, if not her, then somebody better.
!*!Treat Your Emotions Like You'd Treat Your Bestfriend.*!*
2006-09-12 10:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by *Elle Marie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could answer this from experience. Time heals all wounds. But don't ever burn your bridges. There may be a time when your paths cross again. Maybe she is your soulmate. Maybe you two are perfect for each other but it wasn't the perfect time. I fell in love, and lost him.. 2 years later our paths crossed again and now we're getting married. Trust me on this one. It hurts so bad to let go.. But if you were truly meant to be together.. It WILL happen! : )
2006-09-12 10:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by *Leasha* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess its really takes a long while to get over a person..im still in a process of getting over someone and i tell ya,even after 3 months of not talking to each other,i still remember him alot and love him as always and it really hurts when i think about it but what i know is that he's never gonna come back to me again.
So right now,i think you can just chill..spent time doing what you like and though sometimes she might crept into your mind eventually,just tell yourself that you're gonna be ok and always believe that u will love again someday,somehow.:)
2006-09-12 10:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by aleeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be over anyone you fall in love with there will always be a place in your heart for all your loves, no matter what you or they do. You just end up loving them in a new way.
2006-09-12 10:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks to have someone on your mind all the time. The best thing is to stay busy and quit the person cold turkey. By that I mean delete all old emails, texts, pictures etc...It will get better in time and you will have learned something in the process. But it is definitely better to stay busy with friends or family-DO NOT SIT ALONE AND SULK!!
2006-09-12 10:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by klp131 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am actually in the same place that you are. it is soo hard but its just something that you have to deal with. what i tried doing was just meeting new people and eventhough u will have that one person in your head that whole time just remember that it is somthin that you have to get over, because remember that you are not together for a reason
2006-09-12 10:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by jannet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can get over love it just takes time i dont think ur in love i think its infacuation you want her you know u cant that makes u lust her even more i know im a woman but theres a guy i love and its only cause ill never be able to have it lust
2006-09-12 10:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by mell14716 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not with you, she doesn't want to be with you. Save all that love which is only going to go bitter for someone who wants it. She's probably not as great as you think and, once you start believing that, you'll realize that you can love someone else or yourself better.
2006-09-12 10:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by KeM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋