My friend came over to my house to see me last week. He is currently looking for a job. I told him I would I ask my boss about any openings in my department.
My boss had given me his cell number and told me it was ok to give him a call. I called the cell number but did not leave a message. He called me back and told me the number belong to a relative.
He said he was confused as to how I got the number. I told him that my boss had given it to me. That's the absolute truth.
He said he thought we were going to start to date. I asked him what he wanted and he said he wanted to date too. He doesn't want to compromise our relationship.
He told me he would look for jobs outside my company.
We were both upset about our conversation. He left me an instant message Sunday saying he didn't know what happened but it's over and its not a not a big deal. He said he hoped to talk to me soon.
Do you think this relationship can work? I love him and was trying to help.
2006-09-12 03:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
anything can work if you work at it
2006-09-12 03:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl I am going to try and help u but i am confused. I take it your "friend" is your bf. How did your boss get his # and y didn't u have it? Who is this "relative". Was it a female? I dont buy that. How can something be over when it didn't start? You need to step back and look at this outside of love. Take your time , don't go rushing into anything. GOOD LUCK
2006-09-12 10:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Pat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to e honest with him and tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way at least you'll be friends and its his loss
2006-09-12 10:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by MARY M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
justtell him sorry and maybe it can you and him just have to tried
2006-09-12 10:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will not work.He was using you.
2006-09-12 10:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wtf u upto, it's not a big deal, this relationship of couse can work
2006-09-12 10:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋