But the problem is he got engaged some times before only and now i cant do anything but i am restless feel like dying cant stay without him plz help
2006-09-12 03:07:10 · 14 answers · asked by cutiee...vamp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok sweet heart i know it hard for you.but just rimember your live is fery special.dont ever think about dying.thear are so much people that love you.you have your hole world ahead of you.and i know that the richt one will come in your live some day.so smile for me ok. BY THE WAY im still single.if you intrestid just let me know tel 9271109 must put country code.caman island to lover jo
2006-09-12 11:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should never have feelings like you are dying and can't stay without him when you are in love. These feelings are associated with infatuation not love. It is normal to want someone to be in your life and feel restless when they aren't near but never get to the point in which you feel like you would die if they were no longer there. That isn't healthy in a relationship. You hear about people all the time that have lived their whole life together and one dies and shortly after the other dies of a brokenheart!! This is a bit different I think than what you are talking about but if the guy is taken you might still tell him so that way you know that it was addressed and that you tried. Just be ready for the consequences if he does have feelings for you things may get complicated because he will have to break things off with his fiance. If he doesn't have feelings for you than he may not want to speak with you anymore. Weigh the "love" you have for him and find out if it is worth the pain of what may come!!
2006-09-12 03:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think in this way.
What will be the happiest condition that u can want ?
That he will be separated from his engagement & marry u right ?
Now, even if that happens, would u be sure enough that the same thing won't occur again & that one will never snatch him from u as u have done it ?
As u love him, keep on loving him, respect urself for being in love with someone from whom u don't expect smthing back.
A totally impersonal love i mean, even u can devote ur life for him,
no harm in loving a person till death, but there is enough harm to kill smbody else's love.
2006-09-12 03:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by muralidharini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he got engaged, meaning it is not you the person he wants to spend his live with. I can't give you advise that you are going to like. Just walk away. Time will heal, I promisse, but iw would not be fair for the couple that you interrupt or put any "noise" into a great part of their life.
Love him? Then let go
2006-09-12 03:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by xavier_del_rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be practical. He is not the only guy in the world. You should have told him earlier. Divert yourself in some activities you love to do. Leave him to live his life.
Tell yourself everyday that this is not end of my life. It will take time but you will get out this.
Pray. It helps.
2006-09-12 03:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by puppy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this; but, it is very possihbly to late. An engagerment is a promise 2 get married. An engagement has to be respected or you won't be respected. If it's meant to be it will.
2006-09-12 03:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand u. yar being frank i would tel u that u should have told him that u like him, wat? i m sure that he was nt gonna kill u. remember don't let a person go if u know that u can't do without him. he has got engaged nd yet u r confused that do u love him. i won't say its too late bcoz we shld never give t\der's always a possibilty to win. first decide that do u really lv him then go nd ask him and leave remaing on him nd bagu(god). best of luck! thats wat i can do 4 u remaining is to be done by u go before its tooooo late. bye
2006-09-12 03:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down and stay in control at all times. Don't be weak or he will make a fool of you. Good luck
2006-09-12 03:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a bit too late now. There are many guys in this world, look out for someone else....
2006-09-12 03:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by vani3624 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish your English/Grammar classes!
2006-09-12 03:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by sparkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋