Why is it that some guys feel they have to wait some time before asking out a girl who has just splitted up with someone they know (an acquaintance or a friend of them) but not when the girl has splitted up with someone they do not know at all?
2006-09-12 02:47:26 · 8 answers · asked by iamalion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since I was the cause of this question I will answer it as to why I said that. Typically if a guy knows a girls ex it's because they are friends and in my books friendship is something that isn't broken. Once trust is broken between friends its generally the end of their friendship. I would want to make sure that my friend was over the relationship before I tried to date his ex. Hope that explains my answer.
2006-09-13 03:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There does not make a difference. Why the heck would a girl would actually want to go out with a ex's friend??
2006-09-12 10:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They don't care about the person they dont know.
They do, probably (and should) care about their friends. If you wanted to hook up with a friends ex wouldn't you want to wait to find out if your friend would be ok with it? What if your friend is still in lvoe with the person? That would just hurt...
2006-09-12 09:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how close a friend he is to you.when people break up there is always feeling still there.ooo i'm heard it all like i hate her .shes no good ect.hurt feeling coming out.if he is just a acquaintance ask her out . friend, ask him if its ok to ask her out. that away he can't get mad at you just himself.
2006-09-12 09:56:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probley true to their friends. Or,they heard about the relationship on the guys side,and really dont' want to be part of it.
2006-09-12 09:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c alot of guys conversate about the sex with the girl and how freaky she is and that sort of thing they may just want to wait til the stories die down
2006-09-12 09:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hold your horses!
2006-09-12 09:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe as respect for their friend...
2006-09-12 09:51:30 · answer #8 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋