my gf just dumped me for another guy, i just found out 1 hour ago, she sent me an e-mail saying that there's someone else in her life and she's sorry but it's over....we were together for 6 months...she suddenly stopped answering my calls,e-mails and text messages,until i recieved this e-mail...i'm so down.. i can't stop thinking about this....how can i forget about her if everything reminds me of her? how do i move on?how will i act tomorrow when i see her at class?(we're only 6 people in the class so i can't avoid talking to her)...please...help!!! i can't take this anymore!!!
2006-09-12 02:31:34 · 17 answers · asked by Adrian B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sux bro. I've been there. The only thing that will really help you move on is time. You just gotta make sure you stay busy. Hang out with your friends, do things you like etc. Try and avoid time by yourself because otherwise you'll just sit around thinking about her.
It sux that she's in your class but you can avoid talking to her. Don't approach her and if she approaches you act disinterested, as if you don't care.
Don't call her or email her anymore. That's just going to make things worse. Do things to keep yourself occupied and, with time, your feelings for her will disappear.
2006-09-12 02:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak with all the wonderful peeps in here for awhile. We are a cool bunch!!! Don't worry too much about tomorrow. You'll handle it when it happens. And right now, you gotta let yourself feel the hurt because in doing so, you are not putting it off but instead helping yourself to start the healing process of nursing a broken heart. One moment at a time is the way to go
2006-09-12 09:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not going to be easy because you started to have feelings for her but the least she could have done was be a women about it and said it in person she had to be a coward behind her computer.Just like you found her you can find someone else better than her.i KNOW THIS IS A HARD BLOW to you but take time to reevaluate what you want in a women make a list if you have to but next time try not to give your heart so fast next time.
2006-09-12 09:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by keishahayes2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing!! That's awful. Just ignore her tomorrow, talk to the other 4 people in your class only (girls hate that)...and start flirting with other girls in your school (x-girlfriends hate that to) but most importantly, do not show her that this has effected you in any way. Do not apologise, beg, plead for her to have you back or appear weak. There are so many more wonderful girls in the world, don't waste your time with her. Good luck!!
2006-09-12 09:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really wrong of her to do that to you. but don't worry there are ways to stop thinking of this if properly excuted...1) watch tv commericals are a great way to forget for a blissful 30seconds 2) write to her how you feel (but probably not a good idea to give it to her...) or 3) comfort foods. the thing is you won't forget her in a minute...that's not what living is about. if you want talk to her after class tomorrow but other than that focus on your class
2006-09-12 09:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out. you just found out an hour ago? Of course you're not going to be able to forget. It takes a while. Life goes on. Get with some buddy's and bad mouth the ho, get drunk, rip it up. You'll appreciate that you did it later instead of crying like a *****. I say that with the utmost respect for your situation. Don't be a punk dude, seriously!
2006-09-12 09:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will be okay!! Chin up. It will be hard at first, but you are strong and you will get through this. Turn to your friends. The people who love and care about you. They will help you. Heartbreak does heal, and you'll go on with your life and find someone who fits you better than she could. Hang in there.
2006-09-12 09:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down....it has only been an hour, pal. Get a grip and accept it. Take the high road and don't make a fool out of yourself. Leave her alone, don't talk to her and simply nod when you see her in class. In a couple years, you won't even remember her name!
2006-09-12 09:34:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she dumped you that is bad very bad of her ! but now she want s to see you crying and begging for your company, now i know it is hard to forget her but ............i know it is easy to say but diffcult to keep your words . Now you shoudl do is that when u see her you should inore her and show her that you are very very happy without her . this reverse pyschology will help you a lot . it may hurt you but you have do it dont try it do it
just be normal in the class and try to concentrate more on your studies .........soon she will will realise that you have learnt to live without her and by luck you may find somebody really better more loving then her ,,,,,,,,,so all the best try it it will help you
i will pray for you
2006-09-12 09:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by may_minu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah....... poor little thing you..........
No one and nothing could make you feel better right now..!!
Nothing wrong with that!
It is gonna hurt for a while but that's how it goes.......
The most important thing for now would be to keep cool..
There are loadsa things we've got no control over..and other people actions is one of them.
She's decided to leave you, ...you can't control that....
you've gotta deal with it - this is what is in your control.. Deal with it with dignity..........
2006-09-12 09:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by Maxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋