2006-09-12 02:12:38 · 40 answers · asked by jenniescrystleheart 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I sympathize with your loss. Generally it has been seen that God takes off the thing which is very dear to someone. My mother used to say, the good souls are always in demand and the God too needs them too. What I perceive is that your daughter was a good soul and the God desired to have her with Him. Nothing can give solace to your woe. Only thing that puts you back to life would be the punishment to the murderer. I wish sooner or later the murderer would be put to task. The judgement wheel of the God grinds slowly but surely and minutely.
2006-09-14 20:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss and I do completely understand. I toolost a little girl at a very young age and had some of the same questions. I lost my little girl 16 years ago this month and she was 5 days old, It was very hard and I asked God why her when she was so loved and wanted why not a child who was born to a drug mom or some one who didn't care. Yes I do understand and I pray for right this minute. I had a good person give me an answer that gaveme comfort amd helped me to get through the grieving process. I was told thatGod neede a special angel and because my little girl was so loved He needed her worse than I did and she had a special job to do for God, I will never forget how many lives that little girl touched in so many ways in her short time here on earth. I had a nurse who had witnessed deliveries for 20 some years tell me she had never seen such a pure love that I had for my child. It would not have mattered if she had one arm or was purple with pink polka dots I would have loved her unconditionally. Sarah spread alot of love in her 5 short days and I know she is home with God. the other thing I used to comfort myself was that I new where my daughter was I did not have to wonder where dhe was or if she was being tortured like so many kidnapped children. It is so very ard and I am almost intears typing this to you. It gets easier it never goes away we can never forget but we can adjust and go on. I finally had a litttle girl that has been with me for almost 11 years now, but I still thinkof my Sarah often . I do thank God that He took her home with Him abd I know she is safe in His arms. I hope this helps I will pray for you it is so very hard. Please accept my condolances and prayers . May God be with you and cive you peace.
2006-09-12 02:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by wolfy1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because ther is really no god and all humans are not far away from animals .
The laws of this land is also very lenient to criminals of hewinous crime/ See how a kerala Government Minister had the guts to behave with a woman boldly in public in the air craft in the presense of many passengers. So civilized are the ministers of this country.
What best could you expect in such a country ? . If possible seek immigation to civilised Tribal country /
2006-09-13 15:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Infinity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello :}
you had some very good answers ,and I am sorry your going through this painful period in your life .
i happen to beleive that before we are born we make a contract with other souls so that we can all learn through the life on earth what we need to help us go back to the higher being .
without certain life lessons we often do not evolve like we hope to .
when people lose their children early it often is for the benefit of the souls left behind ,to learn painful yet important lessons here on earth ,
often it motivates people to live their life much differently then others .
forces us into a different life style and different thinking .
your daughter i am sure already had taught you how to love ,now she is teaching you something else .
hold onto the idea that this was a plan that all involved entered into and know that she really was a very evolved soul willing to come to you for only a short time but for a really big reason ,for her love of you .
i hope you can perhaps take comfort in the fact she agreed to this [as you did ]way before her brief life even came into exsistance :}
as for murderers etc etc .they are here also for a purpose ,,,,,,unfortunately ,,,,,for without evil and darkness what challanges would good and lightness have .
it really is as simple yet as complicated as that .
i wish you well and hopefully you will be able to gets some dreams of your prescious one to help relieve some of your pain .
peggy :}:}:}
2006-09-12 02:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by pj333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This lifetime is just a drop in a bucket of eternity. We actually choose our path and trials prior to incarnation. The question is why did you agree to it? You chose the difficult path to lose a child for growth somehow. Find what you wanted yourself to learn.
She's fine where she is.....remember the good times so she can now see them again too from your perspective. Channel the grief into helping others. You cannot change the past but can help those going through the same type of trials.
May the blessings be you.
2006-09-12 02:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by American Spirit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your loss and hope you will enroll in a grief therapy program to help you deal with moving on.
Special needs children have a very low chance of survival and she just didn't make it. Murderers live because they were not born with any of the handicaps your child had and our society suffers them to live.
Death is a natural part of life every living thing will eventually have to face. Take comfort in the fact that you were able to care for this child, in spite of the harships you had to endure, before she passed.
2006-09-12 03:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by wuxitan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We will not know this side of Heaven the answers to some questions. I am sorry for your tragic loss of your sweet daughter. I will pray the Comforter to keep you in His arms.
Wait on the Lord;be of good courage,and He shall strengthen thine heart: wait I say,on the Lord. Psalm 9:9
2006-09-12 02:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Faith walker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did not die. We are all spirit which is never born and never dies. The body is made up of five elements which returns to the earth. This world is not our real home, we're just here for a short vacation. Your daughter is still alive, just in a different way. Send her your love, she will definitely receive it. She is in a better place than all of us. A place of total joy, very unlike this world. God has a plan for the murderers. God does not sleep. Wicked people always have to pay for their deeds. Please always remember this saying, I heard it at a funeral once..."When we are born, we cry but the world smiles; when we die, the world cries but we smile."
2006-09-12 02:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Hema 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My wife suffered as a quadruple amputee for four years before she died. I sympathize with your loss. Here's what I found:
(Isaiah 45:7, KJV) - "I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things."
(Amos 3:6) - "Shall a trumpet be blown in the city, and the people not be afraid? Shall there be evil in a city, and the LORD hath not done it?"
It doesn't answer the question "why my loved one", but it explains who's responsible.
2006-09-12 02:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by Angry C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I express my sympathies to you for the lost of your beautiful daughter. No words I know can say will comfort you at this time, but know for certain that your beautiful daughter is in the Loving Arm of our Creator and there is only happiness in her heart now.
They must pay the price, whether here or in Heaven for the crimes that that person has done to your child.
All I can say is the words Our Lord gave me when my mother passed away. He said to me that I am to look for the good in all that seems bad.
It took me years to figure this out but now I am comforted by the word that God gave me. Peace be unto to you at this time><>
2006-09-12 02:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by CEM 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋