he is my ex boyfriend, I've been crying because of our splitting up. I'm afraid he only wants to get me in bed, even though I'm surprised of him always getting back to me
2006-09-12 01:41:39 · 15 answers · asked by lost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're gonna do a lot more crying if you get back with him. There must be a reason he has the title "Ex" in front on boyfriend. Don't live in the past, move on there are plenty of other guys out there.
2006-09-12 01:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are not worth 5 extra minutes of waiting. his intentions were no good. i know how hard it is to let someone go when you are willing to take any moment that they give you in their presence to try and fix what you had between the two of you. but we always end up the one still with a broken heart. and still feeling just a hurt as we did when the relationship split. stop putting all of your energy into trying to make this man love you, stop letting him walk all over you, playing with your emotions because he know he can. you are giving him the power to enslave you. what you need to do is work on mending you, your heart and your confidence. start putting that love back into yourself if you loved yourself as much as this man he would be crawling at your feet. stop calling this prick, igmore his ***, let him go, if you know in your mind and heart that you are confident, sexy , and looking good you are giving yourself the chance to be drooled upon by a variety of men. you will be having so much fun that he will only become a good memory . every once in a while you will run into him. don stop to chat make sure you keep up wit yourself so you'll be looking good when you run into him. put on your best smile and strut your stuff right on past him. he will feel your confidence.
2006-09-12 02:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by purpleartof5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is Ur ex for a reason.... stop going back to him.... U are probably right about the sex.... U are only hurting Urself... let it go... learn from the relationship and get on with Ur life.... he is only going 2do what U allow him 2do.... don't give him anymore of Ur precious time.....
2006-09-12 01:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too emotionally attached to him to just be a booty call at this point in time. You sleep with him, you get the wrong signals, you get in your feelings, and your heartbreak continues on. I would suggest you have no dealings with him, especially sexual, until you are completely emotionally healed or atleast over him!
2006-09-12 01:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man who doesnt wait for a woman to turn up late is not worth the time it take to get ready,,let him go,,no one wants a sad person to date and no disrespect to you but if he is attracted to you as you are at the minute,,miserable,,he is trying to take advantage,,would you date a needy man? no,,you would want a sociable,outgoing,happy,confident and nice man. cheer yourself up,do your hair,paint on a smile and get out there to meet someone else,without the tears.
2006-09-12 01:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're late, why would you expect someone to be waiting for you? Is there a handbook for how long someone should wait before realizing that they've been stood up? If it was that important toyou, you've have been there early, or at least on time.
2006-09-12 01:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound desperate and he knows that, so he will continue to play you. Why don't you just move on. You are deserving of good and the best also.
2006-09-12 01:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U b thr for another 5 mins then if u dont find him then think.
2006-09-12 01:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by urbanbabu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just cry a lot more if you would reconcile with him. Find a rebound!
2006-09-12 01:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think that he might encounter heavy traffic. or he might be in your meeting place on time but you have just arrived early.
2006-09-12 01:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by jessie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋