As my wife is insisting on purchasing a flat. I want to tell u that (we three brothers got their share). My wife wants that seperation. It has been done. As my brother got ill treatment frm my wife because of this we have distributed the shares equally. Virtually He is not staying with me. Elder brother is is staying with another brother in his house. elder brother who is staying with another brother his wife got very upset abt the incident that has happen to my elder brother. For the past 10 days neither my two brothers elder to me is not talking nor chatting nor his wife is not taking the calls which I make . Whether it will be end or will continue. I want a favourable reply on this.
2006-09-12 01:29:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your question is not completely clear, You will need to add more information before anyone can answer.
2006-09-12 01:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by damsel36 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife would have had her own rason to seek separation from ther est of the family.If ther rest of the people were depending on you for anything yur wife might hav ethought that your family would mnot e able to save anything . from what you have saisd no body would be able to assess the real cause of the problem you face . One thing seems to be clear. That you love your brotheres and others in your family.Thatis good . You have ascertinfrom your wife the reason for hser inssitence for separation from the rest of the family. However what ever be the reason , thereis nothing wrong in your wife desireing to have a separate existence and space . You must talk to her and see if yo can help your sibilings if they need your help and if you are better place than they are . The reaon that yur wife wanted a separate life does not mean tha tshe is inimical or would be bad for towards them. you have to srtrike a balace among them . in due course all matters will settle down and your sibilings also would come to realize that your wife is right .they would also have done the same thing if they found that the joint family was a problem for them. any how thare is nothing wrong in your having chosen top live separately. May be you are now no t confident that you wo'nt be able to get on well with your own earning which might be less and your wife might have felt it bad for you to be dependent on the others for long . in that case she is a woman with self respect and you would be able to do it with her support . just listen to her.
2006-09-12 19:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by Infinity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on Gods good earth cant three grown men with wives find SEPERATE places to live! each brother should provide a house for his own wife! this is ridiculous!!!! i dont blame your wife for being angry!!!! what kind of man dosent provide a home for his wife without HIS family living there! the wives of all three brothers should be angry!!!.....you 3 worthless men deserve whatever you get....a REAL man gives his wife a home and he dosent let his family live there like leeching BUMS!
2006-09-12 08:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to rewrite your question and/or proofread it. It's difficult to understand and confusing as the other posters have also stated.
2006-09-12 08:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand your question? How can we possibly tell you if you can afford to buy a flat?
2006-09-12 08:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lirrain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, I can't even understand ur question. I'd love to help you... but be clear in your sentences!!
2006-09-12 08:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by sillyputty13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
next year you are 40...good luck!
2006-09-12 09:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by Max 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no doubt
2006-09-12 08:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by M S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2006-09-12 08:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by silver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋