what can i do to make life more peaceful
sometimes she likes to hurl abuse at me
2006-09-12 01:29:04 · 13 answers · asked by koolkatt29 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Sounds all made up, to me - if it's real, at all - hang in there --- she'll die soon, and you'll be free. . . at last.
2006-09-12 01:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If there's any truth to this question, get your own place, if you are old enough. More than likely your mum just wants to be left alone to do her own thing. She just doesn't want to be bothered by other people's problems. If you have to live with her, just pretend that she isn't there, and avoid her as much as possible. Respect her space, but you can let her know that you are concerned about her well being. Not easy to do, but it does help to lessen the abuse part that is being inflicted upon you...
2006-09-12 01:43:58 · answer #2 · answered by tramps3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make plans to find employment, save your money, and move out on your own. Believe me, from experience I know the damage that can do in ones life. I got out when I was 17 and had to work through a lot of problems in my life. I still love my mom and she got her act together after several years. Most never do, they go insane, go to jail or prison, or die. Save yourself.
2006-09-12 01:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, she needs therapy - rehab services, to get over her drinking and drug addictions. However, only she can help herself, and you can't force her to get help. You, however, can find someplace else to live - is there a relative or friend you could possibly live wth? No child needs to put up with an alcoholic and drug addicted mother's abuse. You could report her to child protective services and they may force her into rehab. But you need a safe place to live.
2016-03-26 21:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you must set a time to pray. If you neglect to set a time to pray you won’t devote yourself to prayer. Secondly, you must establish the place to pray. Once you establish a private place where only you and God get together, you become more motivated to pray. The third aspect is to know the purpose of praying. The purpose, ultimately, is not to get something from God. God’s primary purpose for praying is that we may develop and cultivate an intimate, warm, personal intimacy with Him. When we turn our hearts toward God, He begins to unveil Himself to us, and we begin to understand the ways of God that we never understood before.
2006-09-12 01:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by OnionSkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new mom or move out,i asked an older woman i knew if i could stay with her,after a while of staying there i asked her if she would be my spare mum,she did.she has died now but she was brilliant for twenty years.
2006-09-12 01:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by witchone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoke her ciggies drink her 40z and huff on her buds.
2006-09-12 01:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom you love her, but if she does not stop...you will be forced to tell the authorities..and then you might just have to act on it...
2006-09-12 02:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a counselor or another adult you can trust to find out how you can deal with her.
good luck
2006-09-12 01:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her this and see what she says.
2006-09-12 01:33:20 · answer #10 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋