It is one of the ironies of fatherhood. LOL.
2006-09-12 01:23:15 · 35 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hehe
The thing that keeps all dads up at night. What worked best with me is that my dad refused to dissaprove of any boyfriends when i was going through my (short lived) no hoper faze. However, what he would do is take the mick, not tell me to break up with them, just take the mick.
It was devestatingly effective.
Girls are a lot more clued up about how to deal with men with one thing on their mind than their dads sometimes give them credit for. Ask your wife! :-)
2006-09-12 01:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bebe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my country there is a saying, "If you were a dog with women as a batchellor then you will be cursed with many daughters!" there is nothing you can do but hope that you raised your daughters to respect themselves and your wishes. I am the eldest of three daughters. I was the tearaway who did everything the oppositeto what my parents told me, the middle one was the scholar and started her first real relationship at 23(she is now 25), the third, we are still waiting with baited breath to see which road she will take, she is 19 next month , to all of us she is still 7. We lost our father 11 years ago and if there is one thing we all wish no matter how different we are, we wish that our dad was still here to guide us, love us, protect us and give us advise.
2006-09-12 01:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Acasia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you were a bad boy, then you are already half way to knowing what these boys are saying that may make her sway towards them. But really, besides just telling her what you know, you can't do much. Just hope that she's a good girl. If you try to monitor her every move and don't trust any boys around her, then she'll feel like you don't trust her, and she will go buck wild when she gets 18. I've seen that more than a few times with my friends.
2006-09-12 01:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he comes over, get his name, address, liscence plate #, and buy some boxing gloves, and when her new boy visits, challenge him to a couple rounds. beat the crap out of him, and then tell him, that you were going easy on him, and that if you ever found out that he had unworthy intentions of the "wham bam thank you ma'am" with your daughter, that next time you see him, you wont be wearing gloves. and he had better respect your daughter, because if you don't respect her, you won't respect his face!
another possible way, buy a paintball gun, and tell him every time he brings her home late, you will be waiting outside somewhere, hiding, waiting to get a clear shot when he brings her home.
maybe you can test him. or teach your daugther how to test guys, by telling her friend to come on to him tell her friend to give him her number, but here's the trick the number you gave is actually your cell phone #, and when he calls, BOOM! busted, you got his # on your cell and you can show your daughter, that he can't be trusted. .....oh, and then. pelt him with the paintball gun.
2006-09-12 03:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one that can stop them is your daughter. No matter how hard you try in the end it is going to be up to her. I only hope that you gave her a good upbrining and that it will have her make the right choice. It will do no harm to go and sit down as a family and discuss this .
Good luck
God Bless.
2006-09-12 02:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't......but you can talk honest with the girls about how males think.that's something all girls need to hear from the man who is most important to them.never cheat on her mom and resist the temptations that you will be faced with as a man and show her that real men love their wives and families and stick with them through thick and thin. The day you cheat you will spoil any chances of your daughter having any respect for you thus she will go looking for what you took from her and her mom in other men.you are the most important man she will ever have and how she behaves with her body will depend a lot how you control yours.
2006-09-12 01:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conveniently be cleaning the guns or sharpening the knives when the boys come over. They'll get it. My grandpa did it to my dad when he first came over. My dad just told my bf(now husband) that he'd better not piss him off, he knows where to put a body so it won't be found.
2006-09-12 01:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by ★Fetal☆ ★And ☆ ★Weeping☆ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop it. It's a relentless force that no father can resist. Your daughters ARE going to break your heart..You can however enjoy making the little scumbags squirm whenever they come over to the house to pick up your girls and pretend to be clean cut and all that crap.......damn who are they trying to kid, right?
2006-09-12 01:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach ur daughters that things should be reserved for marriage -not every horny boy in their class room...girls tend to make good choices if their fathers are good fathers -if not they tend to let other men fill the void in their lives in all the wrong ways....and also let them know that u have big ak 47 and aint afraid to use it -on anybody
2006-09-12 01:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man i ask the question my self every night to my hubby ,his best answer is keep a base ball bat handy!!!!Really it is a scarey thing to think of your daughter falling in love getting a broken heart ,I recon the best advice i could give is always make her aware that is is always bums that will take you for granted
2006-09-12 01:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋