I was going out with wat i thought was the perfect lad he seemed so sweet and caring so i realli made a go at it and fell for him big time whilst we were together he went on holiday.When he came back his display picture on msn was another girl kissin him i didnt wanna jump to ne conclusions so i asked him about it and he sed it was a dutch mate,fine by me.We split up shortly after then one of his mates told me he cheated on me with a dutch girl.witch i soon found out was the same girl and his excuse was and i quote"she was the one"".Im so angry but i got to see him tomorrow night,i am over him now as i got a new boyfriend but i wanna get him back for cheating on me gimme sum evil ideas tht make me look oh so innocent and him look like scum he is cheers xXx
2006-09-12 01:13:15 · 20 answers · asked by lilarmygurl06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make him jealous. If youhave another boyfriend you are halfway there.
Men never realise what they got until its gone
2006-09-12 01:14:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge you can do is nothing ! just move on with your life - you have a new boyfriend now who you wouldnt have got to know otherwise - how long is it going to last with someone he met on holiday ? holiday flings dont last that often - so get that bit between your teeth and enjoy the new one and move on - if he dumped you he will be peeved that you are getting over him and thats the best revenge you can get.
Once a guy I dated was already married and I didnt find out for ages - I could have so got my revenge so many times and planned everything under the sun - his wife who he had cheated on with me without me knowing was such a lovley person and I related to her in a lot of ways and strange thing but we became friends through the bad times. Last year we all had to get together for a friends birthday and he had the cheak to turn up with a new woman -we were over him by then and spent the night partying and getting on with things and forgot he was even in the same place - to see us happy and not mooching over him really peed him off and he ended up drinking himself stupid and the excuse was because we "ignored him" - even though it wasnt planned it was the best revenge ever.
If this doesnt convince you and you still want revenge remember its a dish best served sweet but I would go with the latter and get on with your life and forget him - be happy x
2006-09-12 01:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by kinnoishere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to get revenge on him would be a waste of your time. If he cheated on you then he really never cared for you in the first place, so he probably wouldn't care about whatever you try to do to him. You have a new bf, so that right there shows him you're moving on. Let it go. And this time around, don't be so blind. If you see a picture of your bf kissing another girl, dump him immediately, don't even ask for an explanation.
2006-09-12 01:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful. Get him a real nice card that tells him how grateful you are that he showed his true colors as an unworthy mate before you became to vested in him. Remember, he is who he is. He did you a favor by doing it now as versus 5 years from now. Would you be upset if you were thinking about buying a car that you've been leasing and just before you decided you found out it was a lemon? Dating is the same as leasing, it's a great way to test drive before you buy. Even though there will be certain models you think you love, if it's an unreliable clunker, best to know before you buy. Remember, Caveat Emptor
2006-09-12 01:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a blight. Eye for a eye will make the whole world blind...
You say you are over him but you obviously are not. Don't ruin what you have got.
Your ex is accountable for his own karma. Forgive him wholeheartedly and believe that it is the best thing that happened to you. Make him really feel it from you.
That in a way would be the best revenge without having to be vengeful :-)
2006-09-12 01:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by Yoda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a dish best served cold. If you really have to get revenge wait until you think he has completely forgotten about it all and then strike back. Tho' the best sort of revenge would be to do nothing at all but show him how happy you are without him in your life and how insignificant the whole experience with him really was.
2006-09-12 01:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by Acasia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he somehow knows how happy you are with you new boyfriend, whenever he's around cuddle and kiss him etc and that'd make him think "oh? she's happier with him than me?" and he'd start thinking alot then come after you like a dog on fire and confess he's undying love and etc. What you do is, act COY and lead him on slowly then finally drop the bomb. watch the expression on his stupid face. (by this time he'll be convinced you're the love of his life and regret why he ever let you go or did the stupid deceitful stuffs when u were going out)
Enjoy! :D
2006-09-12 02:01:04 · answer #7 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel about being cheated.But revenge is not going to solve anything.What has happened is for good.Now you know his true colour.So move on with your life and just relax with your new boy friend.
Now if you are going to take revenge on your ex bf then he is sure to retaliate.There is no end to this.But if you are going to use your current bf for this revenge purpose,then he will definitely will use you and move on.So make sure the current bf is also not cheating on you and enjoy life with him.Revenge will get you no where.Just have a forgive and forget tendency.If you happen to see your ex bf be cordial with him.He will surely feel bad and guilty.Thats the best punishment you can give for your ex boyfriend.Good luck.
2006-09-12 01:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is to be silent and PATIENT - Be nice to him tomorrow night, become "friends" and when you go to his place next try and find out her email address, and send a letter to her (making out it's from him) telling her that he is waiting for the results of a blood test and that he has tiny, itchy blisters forming on his testicles.
2006-09-12 01:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by ang_172 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show you are a better behaved person: leave revenge to providence. It might consume both of you if you insist on exacting it yourself or by proxy. There are enough better things to spend your resources on than unproductive revenge.
2006-09-12 01:49:58 · answer #10 · answered by WEBBADGER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to look incredible and showing him how well you are doing and happy with the new boyfriend. Then let it go.....
2006-09-12 01:28:04 · answer #11 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋