2006-09-12 00:19:53 · 8 answers · asked by kulwinder s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because two people feel love for each other doesn't mean that they need to be together.
What you need is the right combination of love, friendship, trust, intimacy. And if one of those is missing it can't be a love to stay with She is having affairs.......what part of that is attractive???
Your love for each other isn't a healthy one.
You deserve much more
2006-09-12 00:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I don't understand. Are you talking about an affair while being with you or an affair she had before meeting you?
If it's something that took place while the two of you being together, you either forgive her and go on or you break up.
If it's a previous affair of hers...well everybody has a past and it's none of your business.
2006-09-12 07:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice. Ask yourself these questions: Why did she have the affair? Was it because you weren't taking care of business? Or was it because she just is not ready to commit? Or is she just not capable of being faithful?
If the relationship is salvageable, put down some boundaries. Make her accountable.
Loving someone does not mean you have to put up with bad behavior.
2006-09-12 07:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you want to be cheated on though. It's not fair to you to have to countinuasly go through that, once a cheater always a cheater.... No offense.... If she really care anything for you she wouldnt do that to you.
2006-09-12 07:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its seems to me that she has been very honest with you and also very brave to tell her previous relationship
I think you should respect this girl and carry on???
2006-09-12 07:26:47 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of stipid question is that?
this is no court of law, where certain events call for certain measures...
you want to stay with her? do.
you dont? then dont.
its your call. and i mean YOURS. not anyone elses, including me.
2006-09-12 07:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by wolschou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you luv her,give her a chance.Im sure she is remorseful hey!
2006-09-12 07:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loved you so much she wouldn't have cheated on you....look again!
2006-09-12 07:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by jamie t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋