Dear Helpers,
Please help me understand and clear this situation.
I want to ask you a very important question. There is always a difference of opinion about masturbation causing premature ejaculations. Many peolpe, including health experts say that it is absolutely harmless and should NOT cause premature ejaculations. But there are small group of people who claim that excessive masturbation can TEACH you to ejaculate very quicly and hence Premature Ejaculations. Now if say this is true, my question is, if someone stops masturbation for a year (absolutely NO REAL SEX as well for a year), then will he automatically forget to ejaculate quickly? In other words, by merely stopping masturbation will the condition be reverted or the damage can only be rectified by means of some medication.
2006-09-11
23:44:27
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masturbation has nothing to do with ejaculating quickly. try not to be so quick at the gun, try getting close then stopping untill u build up your stamminer. hint hint hold ur head LOL
2006-09-11 23:48:05
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answered by lost one 4
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Techniques to help with PE!
Squeeze Technique:
To make this technique work, you need to be prepared to set aside private and uninterrupted time three times a week. Don't be tempted to give up if after a few tries nothing seems to be changing. It can take a while to get the hang of it!
· The place to squeeze is just below the glands, the rounded part at the top of the penis. If you have a foreskin, pull it back so the glands is uncovered.
· Stroke and caress your whole genital area. This consists of the glands, the shaft of the penis, the testicles or balls, the area behind the balls, which is called the perineum, and the anal rim. 5 parts altogether.
· Practice touching and pleasuring all these parts so you are very aware of how each part feels in the stages of arousal before you are going to come.
· Now increase your pleasure to a high state of arousal, and when you reach the point when you think you will come, squeeze the penis hard and hold it for 20 to 30 seconds. The erection may go down, but you can get it back. If you were too late with your squeeze, try again later and squeeze a little earlier in your arousal.
· Repeat this three times before allowing yourself to ***.
Do this three times a week and you will begin to notice an improvement in your ability to control your ejaculation?
Start Stop Technnique:
Overcoming Premature Ejaculation takes time and effort, but should be almost entirely successful. PE is usually caused by anxiety and lack of attention to what the penis needs. Often there are other worries too, about pleasing the partner, being discovered and feeling embarrassed, or ashamed. The stop start Technique below can be big help, Try it.
· Find time to practice, Set aside three 20-minute slots each week, and make sure you can be alone and uninterrupted.
· First use your favorite technique and begin to masturbate very slowly, noticing carefully the sensations you get in your penis during the increasing levels of arousal before ejaculation.
· At the point just before you would come, stop touching and wait for the intense arousal to go down. You may lose the erection, but you will get it back. If you were too late stopping, and came, try again later, and stop a little earlier in the arousal.
· Repeat this three times, trying to work up to the twenty minutes. After the third time you can allow yourself to ***.
Do this three times a week, and after three weeks you should notice an improvement. You can also do this during sex, when you get the urge to *** pull out, let the urge subside for a few seconds, Switch positions or stimulate her manually during this time and then continue.
2006-09-11 23:59:45
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answered by Sara_V. 3
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Premature ejaculation is caused by specific things that you do before and during sex. Most of the time without even realizing it. Read here https://tr.im/LastLongerInBed
Premature ejaculation is not some gene you're born with, the result of your penis size or a part of your personality that you can never change.
2016-01-16 03:03:45
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answered by ? 3
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2016-03-31 05:21:42
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answered by Simone 3
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Excessive masturbation only slows the process from my recollection. Way back when I had P.E., I use to envision something horrible whilst mounted. Getting your mind off the pleasure is key to avoiding P.E. Think about a car wreck or something. Another tip is to take short, slow strokes. Then when you're ready to pop, take longer strokes and get back into what you're doing. Works very well.
2006-09-11 23:55:35
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answered by Mr. Peachy® 7
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hey..
dont try leaving mast for a year or any such stupid thing..
just be calm and kool during masturbation..
dont start mastur just like that..
stroke ur cok slowly..
play with it..
try lokkin it..
have the feel of colour, shape, shades, size and stuff..
dont just hold it and start shaking it..
give it sometime..
if u feel u ejaculating sooner than u should, u can try changing position.. i mean if u lying on bed stand up.. if u standing up, try sitting down..
dont concentrate on whatever u thinking while masturbating..
think various other things also..
it ll surely help..
tc
2006-09-12 02:06:40
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answered by Anonymous
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I suggest you read up on it and do your research. Best book I've found is here: http://prematureejaculation.ixanda.com
2006-09-15 13:26:04
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answered by elucidexinc 1
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