My friend is too good by heart, always on the look out to help others, but somehow shes not doing good to herself I feel. She says she had undergone an operation when she was small as a result of an accident of having dashed into something sharp. She says she doesnt want to spoil any relationships and doesnt want to cheat anyone. I dont think the operation would have done her any sort of damage the way she is thinking. The thing is shes a lot stubborn. Once she decides, its hard to make a move on that. But still I want to try as she is someone who deserves a lot better in this world. She is a very quiet natured girl, a little mischievous with the ones she love, and very helpful. She is very stubborn not to take anything from the people she helps. She is very stubborn that she would not marry. She also does not like guys much, maybe the reason is that she has not got any chance to mingle with them much. But I see no way how I can solve this. the question is how to convince her?
2006-09-11 23:23:00 · 4 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hook her up on a double date!
2006-09-11 23:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it time. it sounds like she's young (under 20?) and many people don't get married until after 30. A lot of changes happen to a person in those 10 years.
2006-09-12 06:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by jack b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is perfectly happy to be single. why are you trying to push her down a path she does not wish to be on? if and when she finds someone she really loves, she may change her mind, but why push it? its HER life, allow her to live it HER way.
2006-09-12 06:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep showing her you are there for her and love her a little at a time
2006-09-12 06:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Mim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋