my ex and i have been divrceed for 10 yrs he is remarried for only about 2yrs we have a son together who is 16. he has rung me from brazil while he works wanting to have ph sex!! i said call your wife he says i have!! now he wants to come visit and have sex!! what the hell do i do,and i,m not 100 per cent sure i,m over him
2006-09-11 21:58:27 · 33 answers · asked by jookie70 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Push the bum out the door. He divorced you and now is married to someone else.
Didn't he hurt you enough the first time? He hasn't changed.
No phone sex. Be over him or he will use you and leave you. How many times do you want to be hurt by the same guy.
God Bless you,
2006-09-11 22:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by CHS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really suggest that you think about the reason you guys are divorced, I have no ideal why, but this would be a good reason, infidelity. Do you really want to toy around after 10 years of divorce; Do you want to step on another womans marriage? Look I am divorced, I am with children, but I don't mess with married women, I know, who asked me.(smile). You don't have to be 100 percent over him to do the right thing. Don't be easy, real! If you are lonely, I understand, so am I, but I respect myself and my 8,9,&11 year old children. I want real love, inside heart love; What about you? Time will pass you by and you will be still having the same type of relationships you have had or are having rightr now, if any, unless you start looking upon the "HEART".
2006-09-11 22:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by drugfreebrother 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. I THINK THIS SHOULD BE QUITE EASY X means just that X...remember exactly what won him that estemeded title!!! If you take five out of the flattery and dont pretend your not, you would be sickened by the thought of even contimplated sexual relations with this man again....hell he probably did it to you.....I see a dirt bag and you will fall right into the trap again dont be wishy washy stick to your guns there are so many men in the world dont do it because it might seem vaguely familiar.....nevermind its been 10 years......go get yourself a new love you deserve it....good luck....ANGEL
2006-09-11 22:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah the tribulatiions of a life as yet unfulfilled the real question is not what do I do I am unsure. your question really is can I do this without getting intangled with the other portion of his life the answer to that is yes. You simply have to remember that it is all about fullfilling the desire and obtaining that which I am assuming you are not getting now. Irregardless of either of your current relationships if it is about sex then do it! not like you haven't been there before. his emotional bagge is his let hum deal with it. If you don't want to have sex with him then say so and leave it at that. Me I have with my ex and we both walked away satisfied and contiued with our current relationships with no regrets it really is just physical gratification reaper out.................
2006-09-11 22:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its the tendancy of a normal human to want what is either wrong or not for them...... the thrill of it makes us even more attracted to the person/ thing but deep down we know the right from the wrong. think you know the best how to much ur self respect means to u and if u are going to let ur ex tramp all over it. good luck making the right decision
2006-09-11 22:21:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that u will never have a relation with a married man, if he wants u back , let him divorce his wife and come back , or else u will tell his wife.
U r not a game after all.
2006-09-11 22:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Leeloo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should not have anything to do with him...you are divorced and he is remarried...i would not even have phone sex with him...think more of yourself and you can do better than him...he divorced you and his remarried...it will not make you look to good in others eyes for sure....drop him with the bang he came in with....you are better than that....now do it....i believe you will be glad you did...nothing good can come of it....there was a reason you divorced in the first place.....
2006-09-11 22:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by sanangel 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have sex with him as what? dont let him close to u or ul give in, have some pride and show him that u moved on, after all for him, he remarried
2006-09-11 22:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both divorced fr all the righ reasons, do u want to get into this rut agin fr all the wrong reasons... wake up
2006-09-11 22:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to be on the sleazy side as the "Other Woman"?
He's your EX for a reason.
Get Caller ID, and move on.
2006-09-11 22:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋