I am a 16 year old girl.
Actually I am unable to understand the real intensions of boys. Some behave too good which they are not exactly. Help!
2006-09-11 21:53:44 · 12 answers · asked by swetaleena s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then dont date them...
2006-09-11 22:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Through trial and error I found the best formula. I did this and I found my husband who waited for our first kiss on our wedding day.
Other women say that I am "lucky" to have a good husband like I do. since my husband "doesnt do the things" that thier husbands do to them. But it is NOT LUCK, I choose carefully. You can too.
tell them your first kiss and touches will be ONLY when the pastor says "you may now kiss the bride" and lifts the viel on your wedding day. I did this because I gave my life fully to Jesus, he saved me from my sins and I desire to follow his commands because I tried everything else and it doesnt work.
If any boy-man gets all sad (emo) about this then they just want quick sex and casual fun relationships and dont care about you as a person. I was ridiculed by a b/f because I did this to him. I recently became a christian and he was interested in me and I in him, we liked eachother but He was very mad at me because he thought it was time for me to get physical. I wanted to wait till marriage and he tried to talk me out of it and tell me if I dont then he will leave me and find another girl. I was sad at first but I feel so much better that I didnt get with such a jerk who just wanted to have my body for a night.
If they say that this is cool then they have a better intention. When I say "better" It is still not always your best interest either. Make sure they believe in Jesus ( a good example of love) because only by our relationship with god might we know how to love others. Even a "christian" can be phony in his intentions so look out. To check that kind of guy out check how he treats the very elderly, the disabled, those who can do nothing for him, the "low class" , retarded, the vulnerable, his friends his siblings and his parents. If he treats them all good/ great then he might treat you good when you go thru hard times. If he disrespects any of these then he WILL disrespect you when it is convenient for him to do so GUARANTEED. He will probably evenually treat you much worse than any of these too. Even if he is nice to you only he will probably turn on you if he treats others badly. He must respect your boundaries, if he crosses any line you have set and says oops I forgot then this is a "red flag" he is not respectful and wants to see if you are serious about your boundary. Once he finds you are not serious he will use you no matter what he calls himself, or claims to be. Hope this helps.
2006-09-11 22:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by concerned christian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 16, all boy your age are only after one thing and thats sex. Dont give it to them! If you do you will get a rep as easy and thats never good. Keep your eyes, ears and mind open whne Mr. right pops into your life you'll know, because he will be there when you need him most.
2006-09-11 21:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents advice at all time. Parents do know best.
One thing for sure if he only wants to get into your pants then he is a bad guy.
2006-09-11 22:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is too early. By the time you really need, the situation could be managable by you itself befitting your intentions.
2006-09-11 22:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basicly they all want to bang the kradap out of you. Get used to it. It will stop in about 50 years.
2006-09-11 21:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some boys are only like wat u said. Many of them will be true like me. U will know their intension only when u interact with them. All the Best.
2006-09-11 21:56:27 · answer #7 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let them touch u for a while till intentions appear.....if they are only for sex u will soon know......otherwise they are interested in a serious long time relationship.........
2006-09-11 21:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with their neighbors, they will know about them better
2006-09-11 21:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Bolan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyz good better best so dont trace
2006-09-11 22:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ash me becoz i am a boy
2006-09-11 22:53:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋