Well, I been going out with this guy for 6 months and i love him soo much..but we've been constantly argueing and i treid so many times to work things out (we both did) but it seems like nothing's happening...And recently i broke up with him becuase i felt that was the best thing to do since i was tired of dealing with his immaturity as well as these hurtful arguements...Am I wrong for leaving him especially me being his 1st girlfreind and love??...Should i keep going out with him and wait till he changes or should I be free from this stress and still hurt deep inside??..please help me....I need an answer!!
love *SexiRedheadedMami*
2006-09-11 20:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by SexiRedheadedMami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Come on, not every couple in this world have no fights with each other. Try to talk to him and deal with the solution, not the problem. And remember don't always give up in your relationship.
2006-09-11 21:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to continue as a couple do you? Just treat him as a friend, if he's still not matured yet. Both of you do not seem to respect each other's views, thus the arguments. If both parties have strong views that are different, we have to sometimes agree to disagree. For long term relationships to survive, both parties must respect each other's differences and opinions, because all of us are brought up differently, developed different values and influenced by different people around us.
You can't deal with your b/f's broken heart! He has to deal with it.
You take care of your side.
By treating each other as friends and not as a couple, you give both of you a chance to understand each other better without any commitments. At the same time you are free to develop other friendships, widening your circle and choice of future partners.
Both your situations will not be that stressful, once you are free to choose. Go ahead and enjoy your life! The right one will come along at the right time.
2006-09-12 04:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regsrdless of how much you care, a person who you cannot get along with is bad news. You will never have a completely sane relationship.
Just remember that there are no perfect matches.. the best match is one where you have two people that care enough for each other to get past their differences
2006-09-12 04:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Talisman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give him first experience to be more mature and grow up.
Get somebody min.10 years older then you and you can see the difference.
Don't be sorry and stop hurting yourself get over - good relationship start very good and if you both care can be successful.
2006-09-12 04:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time enough on this guy if he doesnt understands you. Go for another, life is like an icecream mam, enjoy it before it melts.
2006-09-12 05:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by josef 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to make it work cause i'm going through the samething but if it's not working then let it go I know it's hard
2006-09-12 13:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Scooby_doo06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he needs to grow up only you can make him change his ways.If you are not getting what your putting in Id advice you to start looking for someone new.
2006-09-12 04:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by cowgirl angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant stand to be without him and he treats you well try to work it out.
If you can live without him and or he treats you like crap then ditch him.
Youll both get over it and move on, trust me.
2006-09-12 04:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be waiting a long time for him to change..maybe forever...Go with your feelings, they are usually right, he'll get over it as soon as the next 'Chicky' catches his eye......
2006-09-12 03:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on down the road!
2006-09-12 04:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋