I thought I love my wife but her eyes are 2 dimensional my gf are 3 dimensions I can look right into them like we were together in a past life. Everythings electric my wife was never like that they have met and are aware of each other but I dont want 2 lovers what should I do my wife is the mother of my son.
2006-09-11 20:53:38 · 20 answers · asked by Shironeko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like you are in love with lust.
You shouldn't have a wife or a girlfriend. You don't have the self discipline to devote yourself to your marriage. If you put the energy in your marriage that you are putting into adultery and hiding your adultery, Your wife would be delighted and you would find that you have a wonderful and exciting marriage.
But, You are flattered by the attention and the newness of this girlfriend. You made a vow when you married your wife and you are cheating on her.
You better go to confession and go to a marriage councillor before you ruin the lives of everyone involved.
And don't say your wife was never like that. You loved her enough to promise the rest of your life to her. In exchange she promised the rest of her life to you. You should have stayed away and let her meet someone who would love her until death do they part.
Now Straighten up and fly right!
May God Guide you,
2006-09-11 21:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah.....you love yourself and everything is about yourself.....try to think if you are in your wife's position and know about your affair.... aboout dimensional...love is not one way,but love is something to work for,no matter your wife have 2 or 1 dimensional eyes..then u have commitment already...so you should take responsibility from what you started...second things is,everything looks nice with your girlfriend because you don't have any responsibilities and commitment to her..and....have u been together with your girlfriend more than 2years?because when a human interested to other human(a.k.a falling love) there will be a hormonal reaction that will last fo 2 years only..after that,if you not taking any work to each other....everything will be gone,dull,bored. I believe that 3 dimensional&past live experience was the hormonal reaction effect only...so you better be an adult and think maturely...not in sake of yourself...life is more than that... ^_^
2006-09-12 04:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by siany_lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being selfish and you should end up alone.
You are in the sin of adultery.
Stop cheating on your wife and them making lame excuses for doing what is wrong.
It doesn't matter who you convince that you are right if you hurt everyone involved and then burn in hell.
Stop looking around with lust in your eyes. You are pathetic. You are just looking for a new thrill. Grow up.
2006-09-12 04:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by CHS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your wife a divorce she deserves better than you.When was the last time you took the time to look into your wife's eyes?You didn't make it clear,does your wife know?Of course its exciting with the girlfriend,its all new and you know your doing wrong.Any other time I would suggest counseling but you are to one dimensional.
2006-09-12 04:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by jean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are times that you feel you're falling in love with another woman... But if you tried to recall how you've been with your wife, your problems that you solved together, and the sacrifices that you've been passed thru with your wife, you'll forget what you think is your feeling with that other girl.
You still love your wife because you're still considering her inspite of that other girl you're attracted with.
You can still solve for that electricity you're looking for in your wife if you just try to apply to her what you think you can do to that other girl.
2006-09-12 04:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by bembie719 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am exactly in this situation also. Lost in lust on love and sex with my girlfriend. Though both of us are married, we meet secretly and make love. We had discussed over it and our sex was very intense, different from with our spouses. Is this real love?
We have entered into a very tight bond relationship and both love our own family very much. And yet why this happened?
Frankly speaking, love cannot be shared. Either you have with one, lost it, then give to another.
Perhaps humans are selfish, want the best of both world.
2006-09-12 04:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by Whitesands 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should load a glock, point it in your mouth and pull the trigger, because that is what you are doing to your marriage
But if that is what you want, then by all means go for the gf, most kids have divorced parents anyways...
2006-09-12 03:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your are staying togeather for your kids that noble in the 50's. Trust me been there done that. It is better to have two happy homes than one bad one. On the matter of who to pick. That is up to you, but chose wisely you only get one shot, and if you **** it up you will be the one alone at night having sex with yourself
2006-09-12 03:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is sumthing wrg here u say ur married and have anouther on the side.Only you hold the answer and I am pretty sure you answered it in your question.
2006-09-12 03:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirl angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh! Why don't u just save us the trouble of answering in details and just toss a coin.
2006-09-12 04:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋