Leaving him is out of the question! I love him. How can I get him to see that I'm serious, and that I want a relationship!
2006-09-11 20:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by Twiggy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be honest with the boy. One of the worst feelings in the world is to be in a relationship just as his object.
Let him know exactly how you feel... it's all or nothing. You don't wanna lose him but you don't wanna be his object, refuse to be his object, for a strangers sake.
2006-09-11 20:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wake up girl, he obviously does not love you at this moment.
Why do you say you love him? I would agree with you that you really love him if you are prepared to:
1. Sacrifice what you love for his sake.
2. Accept that he does not love you, yet you will carry and give birth to his children for him.
3. Give in to his demands for sex whenever he needs it.
4. Understand his selfishness very well and accept them wholeheartedly.
5. Accept it when he tires with sex with you and looks elsewhere for it.
After reading the above, do you still think you love him?
What you want and need is not important to him.
2006-09-12 04:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have started with the relationship and then got into the sex thing. Now you're kind of screwed if all that he wanted you for was a piece of @$$.
2006-09-12 03:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you NUTS?!???
Just let him go.. It's hard to convince a guy who's interested in nothing but sex.. There are plenty of other deserving guys out there...
Maybe, sometime, he'll realize the error of his ways but it'll be too late for him.. Don't bear the brunt just coz you love him so bad..
That just shows you being desperate...
2006-09-12 03:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by misanthropia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then get use to be used for sex and not having a healthy relationship cause he only see you as an object not a humane being sorry
2006-09-12 03:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just can't change some guys. Keep looking and you will find a good one out there. Not all of us are only interested in sex.
2006-09-12 03:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times in your life have you heard "BOY'S ONLY WANT, ONE THING"? THERE IS A REASON! it's true! And you are finding this out! They will tell you what ever you want to hear to get it! And these really idiot females who think getting pregnant will hold him are delusional!
2006-09-12 03:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you dont want to leave him but what are you going to do...be an object for the rest of your life....you have to talk to him....and he has to change....this is very unhealty and you shouldnt let yourself be treated that way
2006-09-12 03:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this boy reminds me this flash : http://www.mpam.gr/flash_animations/
after all , i think that love have made you blind! leave him to find a person that really Loves you!
2006-09-12 03:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Saem K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets swap honey. my man neva initiates sex
2006-09-12 03:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by amor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋