i don't want to cheat on my husband but its like, the opportunity has risen before (i haven't cheated) BUT i am really tempted..... why is the temptation there?
2006-09-11 20:34:19 · 19 answers · asked by mellisa m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it makes every womaan feel special when another man has interest, this is when you f**k the sh** out of you man all night and when he asks what he did to deserve it, tell him its just because he is who he is and you love him
2006-09-11 21:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody wants to be wanted but cheating is not the answer if it's this man you want not your husband break up than move on but if you want both maybe your relationship has problems or you are having a drop in self control.
2006-09-11 20:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, temptation is always there. The reason's for cheating on your partner vary. But is does feel special to be wanted. I currently have the same situation....being wanted by another woman. It does make you feel alive!
2006-09-11 20:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the temptation is there because you can't have it. BUT don't give in. It's like having food that you've never tasted, once you do, you may crave it worse. Rather than thinking it smells nice, you want to eat it too. Make sense?
2006-09-11 20:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by loveygirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you probably feel theres no romance in your marriage and thats what you get when you put yourself around other men allowing them to think your open game when your not do men all over the world a favor tell your husband before you do it so he can dump you before getting hurt.
2006-09-11 20:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by kauaiboi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's Mother Nature, who has built into both men and women, the desire to do what makes babies, to keep the species of humanity going.
It's natural, but there are lots of conflicts and social difficulties, if everyone gave into their temptations, so we all try not to cheat, but often do anyway.
That's why we have divorce courts, custody battles, etc.
2006-09-11 20:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you're a sad sad pathetic person that seems to NEED the attention of a man and are too stupid to talk to your husband, because you obviously aren't happy in your relationship.
If you were this wouldn't be happening.
Where's your husband now? It's late, if he's sleeping and your up . . . hmmm. Let's just say things must not be going that well.
2006-09-11 20:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The feeling of being wanted is natural. We're all humans and we all want to be wanted and the feeling of being wanted is like a compliment. It feels good and it makes us feel good about ourselves. As long as u don't act upon your feelings with someone else, there's nothing wrong with that.
In my marriage, my husband makes me feel wanted and that's all that matters to me.
2006-09-11 20:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you marry someone, does NOT mean you will stop being attracted to others!!! The question is...Do you love him ENOUGH to avoid hurting him??? Most people don't. They want their cake and eat it too. Most get married too young anyway. Don't marry until you are AT LEAST 30!!
2006-09-11 20:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to feel attracted to other people, so don't feel guilty.
Your husband only makes up a small percentage of what is still out there to experience.
2006-09-11 20:40:08 · answer #10 · answered by EcXeSSive ConSUmptiON 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋