He strangled me and suffocated me when I didn't want to talk when I was upset with him ignoring me when I was sick since I took care of him ...gave him all the attention and all... All I needed was just a part of him touching me when I was laying on the couch...that's all....He totally ignored me watching his stupid "friends" show.... he keeps rewinding everytime Jennifer Aniston's nipple should show...makes me jealous and upset... I left the livingroom to read a book and he came around being rude and eventually I am here on bed with him ripping my hair and I was crying and I couldn't breathe cuz he had his hands on my mouth trying to shut me up.....I love him so much but also so confused to y he did that to me since he says he loves me... Till today, he never apologised..always turning the table around and blaming me for his cause of actions for not communicating. Pls help, should I stay or go...it's been 5 years we r together now and I also have a son ....it's creepy.
2006-09-11 20:29:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
LEAVE! I'VE BEEN IN A COUPLE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS AND THE WORST ONES ARE THE ONES WHO DON'T APOLOGIES AFTER HURTING YOU! I WISH I KNEW THE MAGIC WORDS TO MAKE YOU LEAVE NOW, BUT I DON'T. JUST KNOW THAT THE COURT ORDERED ME TO GO TO BATTERED WOMEN'S GROUP SO I'LL STOP GETTING IN THIS KIND OF TROUBLE, AND THE ONE THING THEY PRESS IS THAT THE MEN WHO DON'T SAY SORRY OR BUY YOU GIFTS AFTER HURTING YOU ARE THE WORST AND MOST DANGEROUS!
2006-09-11 20:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry for what you're going through. I understand that you're probably under a great deal of stress in this situation... trying to make a decision after having been with someone for so long and having a child together... very scary to break away... but you MUST. He went too far and it's only a matter of time before he snaps. Your son should NOT be raised seeing this! If anything leave for your son! And do it now. You'll be fine. You're stronger than you know. God Bless!! Best wishes!
2006-09-12 03:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT BEFORE YOUR SON IS LEFT WITHOUT A MOMMY, I mean when he is sleeping get your son and get out go to a friends house or relative call the police and report in now, take pictures if any marks are visible. Maybe next time it will be your son who get hurt, think of him first.
2006-09-12 03:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See from my experience have concluded that don't let anybody know that he or she has power to hurt us and how much we love them. because the day they will get to know how much we care they start ignoring. some casualness should be there. take some room for yourself. respect yourself, your feelings and most important love in your heart. our love does not deserve to be ignored or hurted. look beyond this relationship. if somebody is hurting us knowingly then we are only the person who can do something.
2006-09-12 03:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by smart she online 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, HE STRANGLED YOU and you can sit there and ASK IF YOU SHOULD STAY OR GO????
Girl, GET OUT OF THERE. TAKE YOUR SON AND LEAVE!
He needs help but NOT FROM YOU! He will hurt you if you even say anything. LEAVE! It's not worth it!
He's NOT A MAN! HE's A SADISTIC A S S HOLE
2006-09-12 03:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh, i'm sorry to hear that......talk to him first n' ask what's the matter with him....tell him your problems.......if he doesn't wanna listen, that's it!!!! u know, hurting u n' not being with u when u're upset is not a man's job.....he's a jerk, a monster!!!!! i know u love him but if u let him go, life would be better since he doesn't deserve u!!! take your child with u as u don't want your child to turn pervert.......find another good man.....go for your life!!! he did say he loves u, but does his action say that???God bless u!!!
2006-09-12 03:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok unless you like being abused you need to pack your crapola and leave, if you think this isnt affecting your son your dead wrong....So decide are you worth more or do you like to be treated less than human?????
2006-09-12 03:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave and leave before he crosses the line and kills you one day
2006-09-12 03:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get his *** arrested. expose him to what he is to all. dont hide in the shadows anymore.
get away from him. its not worth it. imagine if u actually had tha audacidy to provoke him?
GET OUT
2006-09-12 03:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave, get out, move on before he hurts you or your son
2006-09-12 03:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋