I feel like my friend is trying to pull away from me. I think were begining to grow-apart. He never wants to do anything fun together anymore like we used too and he never answers my telephone calls. Do you think I'm wasting my time on this friendship?
2006-09-11 20:09:57 · 14 answers · asked by Apy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I don't think that you are wasting your time. Friendships are special. If he is not responding to you, then give him the space that it sounds like he is wanting from you and let him come back. You know kinda like that saying, if you love something set it free, if it comes back it was ment to be. Let him miss your friendship. If you keep calling all the time, then he knows that your always there waiting for him. Show him that you can do things on your own without him and that you have other friends besides him.
2006-09-11 20:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it takes two to roll a boat. Eventually, he will have to do his part, to get things going.
However, friendship is not only about having fun. Maybe he is going through a difficult time right now. Try to be understanding, if you want to keep this friendship, and let him know that.
If you don't really care (and that's Ok), then don't waste your time.
2006-09-12 03:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good conversation is in order. Plainly talk to your friend about how you've been feeling. I lost a best friend years ago due to a lack of communication. Don't make the same mistake. At least if you talk to your friend and try to make an effort to find out what's going on and how he's feeling... and he ends up still distancing himself... then you can let go of him knowing that you tried to maintain your connection and keep the lines open.
2006-09-12 03:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship has to come from both sides yu can never spend your life begging for friendship,try to find out whats wrong with your friend if he he still contues to ignore you then call it off.
2006-09-12 03:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by pope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u got a av sum pride in yourself. Doesnt mean u av to b proud o sumthin, but.., ive been in that situation.., many times, n even now. Ask yerself, y u wana beg fo his friendship. U really that weak n need em? U dont av any frens? Well, as fo me, even if i dont av no frens, i dont beg fo it, so b tuff gurl, juz act usual, dun b mad at em, but, dun b like, call em nemore, o sumthin. Dun b mean, but juz show dat, if he wantsa be yer friend, then cool, but if he doesnt, cant force ya..
2006-09-12 03:23:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just back off and see what happens. Go with his flow and do not depend on his friendship to make you whole. If he is backing away, help him.
2006-09-12 03:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything to be continued needs support from both sides. Since he is ur friend, ask him why is he indifferent? If he won't reply still, then there is no meaning of continuing ur relationship. Excuse me if my suggestion hurt u.
2006-09-12 05:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him and get out of him what is wrong, if it did not work, better you respect yourself and leave him with his life on that way you wont regret that you have not tried the things out. good luck and put in mind there is all ways a lot of good things in nature for us, we need to lokk forward for them to happen for us.
2006-09-12 03:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by baran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can first try talking to him and be honest. If he is moving his own way - then try to respect that and move on. There is nothing worse than looking desperate. I know it can hurt -sorry!
2006-09-12 03:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by natureutt78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just get a new friend then when he sees you are not paying any attention to him he will come around
2006-09-12 03:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋