Im married on 28th May 2006. We made love on our 1st nite but my hsband didn't *** inside only the 2nd day. Up till now i'm not preg yet. My menses use to be irregular b4 marriage but now i've had it regular only not on the exact dates. 1st mth after marriage menses came 21st June(pink spots then bleeding) ends on 23rd; 2nd mth 4th Aug ends 8th Aug; 3rd mth 3rd Sept(heavy) ends 7th Sept. My husband & myself are trying to conceive
2006-09-11 19:58:21 · 8 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You will want to know when your fertile days are. Yoou'll need to know when you are ovulating. Most women would use the Basel Body Temperature to help when they are ovulating. It is usually 2 weeks BEFORE your next period. It doesn't matter how long or short your cycle is.
2006-09-11 20:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush it. Do what comes naturally and it will happen. The more you stress it, the more likely it will take you longer. If after a year of trying and nothing happens see a fertility specialist. Do it to have fun, keep in the far back of your mind you want to have a baby. But stressing the factor makes it harder to conceive since the both of you want a baby. Go to the stor and bye an ovulation test. It will tell you when you are ovulating and the best time to have sex. Also you can test your ovulation by taking your temerature everyday before you get out of bed in the morning. Keep track of it, and when you notice a difference you will be ovulating.
2006-09-12 03:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by crzyfiregirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your bullets and make love 2 Weeks after your menses. Do it for 2 nights, have 1 night rest, then again for the next 2 nights.
Get your hubby loose shorts without underwear at home to allow air flow and lower temperature to his private parts.
2006-09-12 03:09:09 · answer #3 · answered by ET+65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dee, to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-09-12 07:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE IT EASY! Making a baby should be a fun and memorable thing to do. Not stress. Just drink a glass of wine, relax with your husband and take it one day at a time. Thats all you have. If you see down the line that your havent gotten pregnant, consult with your doctor. But I had a relative with the same situation and finally she got pregnant when she actually stop thinking about it. She just enjoyed it!!
2006-09-12 03:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by The real questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
It will be easier to concieve if you and your husband are in better health... and when your health is more balanced
For me, me and hubby did a detox before we got married and shortly after we got married, I concieved ;)
My son is already 14 months and you can see his cute pics at his blog: http://verityy.blogspot.com
I taught a friend how to detox because she wanted to look radiant for her wedding.. ended up also helped her in baby making.. hehehe.. she also concieved shortly after her marriage. or should i say IMMEDIATELY.. hahha..
If you want to find out more about the detox, you can email me at verityy@yahoo.com
2006-09-12 03:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words: Doggie style.
2006-09-12 15:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by memichelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex right after your menses.
2006-09-12 03:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋