my bfriend never wants to have sex,(3times in 3 mos.) & im f****** sick of it & whenever i want to, he turns me down, & we're supposed to get engaged but you know what? f*** that, im going to cheat on his a** & im telling all of you cause anyone i know will FREAK out on me so, im ready to mess this s*** up, & i dont care anymore!!! im leaving his a**!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 19:45:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no, of course im not always this crass, people! i cook for him, do his laundry, i am sweet w/ him, but im at the point where i cant take this anymore & feel rejected & im totally FED up!!!!!!!
2006-09-11 19:54:22 · update #1
i hear u girl. im inthe same situation and totally understand your frustration.
i sat my man down and told him what i want out of this relationship. told him that this was very important to me as i know it is for you. he didnt realise but there were things going on for him too.
lay out all the cards on the table for the both of you and give yourself a deadline to see some changes.
if not then i guess we'll both b single again. we'll have to go for coffee. :O)
2006-09-11 19:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by amor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alrighty then .. not necessarily sure you are telling us this and its really a conversation you should be having with your bf don't you think? As well if you are breaking up with him, then do it. There is no reason to really cheat. Leave him and then go have your fun
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-12 02:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl there could be a physical problem....Or stress or he is tired all types of things...But hey i totally understand, you need what you need to and more power to you...If he is not what you want or expected, it isnt going to get any better if you got married, it may get worse...So move on and find a guy that gives you what you need.....
2006-09-12 03:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm maybe he wants to wait for after the wedding, you know saving his energy so it will be ecstasy when you guys get to do it. He might want you to crave him. Just do not cheat on the guy trust me I should know esp not for sex. If the guy had enough balls to ask you to marry him maybe you should have enough balls to get over the sex situation and realize that it is not all about that.
2006-09-12 02:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so much power i see there...yet, you still can't get him totally into you....
u r angry.
but do not want to upset him.
talk to him with TLC, and give him a situation like this and ask his opinion.
but if u've made up ur mind, I'm no stumbling block.
My best bet, by the time u read this, u're still contemplating.....
2006-09-12 05:07:27 · answer #5 · answered by enmaidliya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you stopped to ask why he is not interested.....has been able to explain why
but then again by the language youve used in this question that would be enough to turn most people off.....
I think he will probably be better off without you.
2006-09-12 02:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you mean it so why tell us...sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship but its up there in the top five... have you tried asking why... when you're not horny...
2006-09-12 02:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey-I'm horny also-my gf has lost interest. She just rolls over and goes to sleep.
2006-09-12 02:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your going to sleep around on him email me lol, there's no better time to start ;)
2006-09-12 02:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u so rude always ???? If this is your normal language then I don't blame him.
2006-09-12 02:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by majorcavalry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋