my fiance made me delete my myspace page yesterday. I used it for nothing more than to communicate with my friends, that I actually know. He said he didn't want me to have it because 'he wanted to protect me' (we have a long distance relationship and he doesn't know all of my friends personally). I really want this page back, because my friends live thousands of miles away and it is a great and easy way for me to keep in contact with ALL of them.
2006-09-11 19:38:28 · 12 answers · asked by Milka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let him rule this and he will continue......If there is no reason why other than to "keep you safe" that he wants the page gone....then there has to be some insecurities on his part.....you have friends there is nothing wrong with that.....he isn't your father he can't make you do anything.....Ask him what he is trying to keep you safe from.....the only people you talk to are your friends and how could that not be safe.....it is safer than driving to see then....I mean really it sounds like he is insecure and is afraid of you meeting someone online.....explain to him that maybe if he met your friend he most likely wouldn't feel so insecure about you talking to them.....also a man getting you away from friends that aren't bad for you is an early sign of an abusive (Verbally, Mentally, or Physically)and contolling relationship......so be careful.....you are a grown woman and can make desicions for yourself and should do so....If your myspace is deleted it should be because you chose to not because he said so.......HTH Lissa
2006-09-11 20:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY!!!
He has no right to make you delete the page. YOU choose which friends you allow, so any random sleezey or psycho people that try to contact you are easy to avoid. Youre not a child, live the life you want... dont let anyone tell you what you can and cant do or which friends youre allowed to have!
It sounds like he doesnt trust you, and most people that dont trust their partners, are the ones that cant be trusted.
Id think twice about marrying someone so controlling!
2006-09-12 02:50:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thathe is trying to protect you but he is too overprotective. you can have a mysoace if you want to since it does not involve him nor his friends. as for the long distance relationship and the whole friends thing that is a bunch of bs in my opinion. this guy does not know how to protect you from harm yet he causes it.talk with him or otherwise make another myspace page with a a different name and tell our friends only but not him.
2006-09-12 02:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhm yes, it is understandable. Why would you want new "friends" and have "friends" look for you if you already found someone you want and someone that wants you. Myspace is mainly for singles, teens or really sad souls( i would have to include my self in this one). I am sure all your time should be devoted to your soon to be husband not to myspace. That is not essential. As for your friends well have you ever heard of AIM or MSN messanger or oh yeah a old thing called e-mail. They work just as fine.
2006-09-12 02:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are to many perverts out there and alot of them are in the my space pagees, I know this because I have a messed up niece who has a my space page and me and my sister have visited many times, so use safe ways such as email or even yahoo instant messaging, so yes i would say tolerate it, he wants to keep you safe so let him keep you safe.
2006-09-12 02:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by J-LO 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How can he make you delete the page when he's not even nearby. He has no right to ask that of you.
2006-09-12 02:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see his point of view and yours....my space has been linked to a series of crimes by preditors on the internet, however if you have given him a reason to not trust you then u should not be on, other wise he should trust your judgement and quit trying to control you.
2006-09-12 02:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by sturner1111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's protecting himself. Doesn't seem like he trusts you. Maybe try to compromise with him.
2006-09-12 03:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Johhny Drama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know my ex boyfriend made me delete mine as well and now he is my ex so....
2006-09-12 02:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont put up with that crap. that should be a warning for you. controlling boyfriend now, controlling husband later.
2006-09-12 02:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by locowherto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋