My boyfriend and I are together again.Everyboby knows our relationship except my family.My family is so strict specially when it comes to my lovelife.For my mom I'm too young to have a serious comitment.But I love my boyfriend and I dont want to lose him.I need your help guys!!
2006-09-11 19:29:17 · 14 answers · asked by Hitomi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her that you are a lesbian or sleeping with your teacher. Wait a few weeks then tell her the truth.
The shock of her realzing that you aren't gay or sleeping with your teacher will give her piece of mind that it's just an average ol' boyfriend.
2006-09-11 19:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffi Poodle Pie 69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont know how old you are so it makes it hard to answer, as how young is too young? If you are of a reasonable age say 17 then you have a right to make certain decisions on your own. I dont know your mom so dont know how she would react, but they usually find out themselves in the end. It is your life (given that you are old enough) so take charge and be polite and make your own choices and tell your parents in a polite way what your choices are! Disregard all this if you are only 12
2006-09-11 19:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of this is her libido. She sounds as though she's depressed. given which you the two artwork and he or she in all hazard has the main accountability for the care of your 2 infants (with all that that suggests), this is fullyyt existence like that she's under pressure, overworked and hence- depressed. regrettably, if she is feeling depressed, she won't have the inducement to heed your romantic suggestions. Ask her how she's feeling and however if she feels depressed and can choose for to be certain somebody (counselor). yet in any different case to help her is to start doing greater around the abode and taking the youngsters on an time out that would supply her some 'down time'. that could be the main suitable aphrodisiac!
2016-12-15 06:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? That would usually have some bearing, along with your parents' personal and religious beliefs...
I'm someone's parent. And I'm also someone's child. As a child, I wanted to do what I wanted to do and as a parent, wish my children knew how much I'm here for them.
You may love your boyfriend, but on the slim chance that he hurts you again or you contract a disease from him or get pregnant, what other choice would you have but to tell them then?
It sounds to me as if you love them and you really want their approval. I say tell them now and save yourselves from all the heartache you're gonna go through later. That, and if you don't tell them and they find out on their own (you said everyone knows but them... ), it will take them a while to trust you again. Is *that* worth losing? Your parents are there for you. Trust them.
2006-09-11 19:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by coorissee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are strict because they are concerned about what might happen to you. I would say your boyfriend should want them to know instead of thinking they shouldn't and everyone else should. You could still reach him sooner or later if the two of you are serious enough. If you will lose him just because your parents know, he probably doesn't deserve you.
2006-09-11 19:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age. If say you are younger than fifteen then yes, you should let your mother know.
But if not, well i usually tend to notice that peoplethat age do fall in love but they fall out of love very easily. Just wait it out for now.
2006-09-11 19:31:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How young are you? Well, sit down & hav a talk with your mother. Ask her for advice instead of arguing with her to find out what she is expecting from you and your boyfriend.
2006-09-11 19:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by william 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is right either way, to not tell them or to tell them so I am confused myself sorry this didnt help
2006-09-11 19:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by E.F. Landeros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, just tell your parents (esp mom) the truth about your love life. you didn't do anything wrong, you shouldn't hide any secrets. if your mom loves you, she would be more reasonable & understandable-about your situation. =) good luck!
2006-09-11 19:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by jv637 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you ? if over 18 its nobodys bizz but your own . if your younger they have a right to know
2006-09-11 19:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋