Without being rude or sounding too blunt about it! I have to room with this person for four months and i cannot take it!
2006-09-11 19:24:19 · 17 answers · asked by Ace Renee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might need to hold your tongue but do set healthy boundaries from the get go, don't let things get out of hand. It's hard when your in confined spaces like you are, but you will need to make the best of it and maybe spend asmuch time out as you can. I know that you shouldnt have to be out all the time just to keep your sanity, but it's better than yelling and screaming at them and then having to see them for the next few months. Good Luck.... :)
2006-09-11 19:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have to room with them, you are going to have to sit them down and have a blunt, but polite conversation. Rooming is a two way street, and they need to respect your needs as well as you need to respect theirs. I'd just try to talk it out. And pray for the best. You haven't specified what you are irritated about that is upsetting you so. But, at least try and talk it out, if you can't, I'd let them know you definitely need to make some other arrangements. It's not worth the stress to either of you or what the stress could lead to.
2006-09-12 02:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're going to have to practice some self-control and patience. Or you could try telling the person that you like privacy and prefer to have a lot of space and quiet time to yourself. Maybe that'll get the point across.
2006-09-12 02:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends on what makes them irrating and annoying, if its something trivial just ask them to stop like be quiet so you can do work, they should respect that, maybe they'll go out for awhile. If that can't resolve it (I assume this is college) request a transfer.
2006-09-12 02:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say: excuse me, I need you to do me a favor. Im (studying, resting, watching tv, etc) and you are just being to noisey, and I cant concentrate fully when you keep talking. How about you and me go see a moive or something and have some fun, but now, i need some "me" time. Please respect what I am requesting and we will turn out to be great friends.
2006-09-12 02:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to tell her/him directly man. It's the best way to deal with the person. You'll just end up going through more sh*tty stuff if you wanna tell indirectly. =)
2006-09-12 02:28:26 · answer #6 · answered by yweouch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a letter will do..type all u want to say to this person...n print it...dont let this person knows that u're sending this letter...n when the person tells u abt the letter, just listen n put a sympathy face :)
2006-09-12 05:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by SoliloQuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I'm with annoying people, I annoy them too and they end up ignoring me. Hahaha!
2006-09-12 03:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Meeya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be HONEST with them,that is the only way you will come out of this still sane.
2006-09-12 02:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by wizardalli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the person that it is not going to work out. and that should move out of your life
2006-09-12 02:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋