I too my wife to a concert on Weds. 5hrs there watched show and started back. Stopped and stayed in hotel. Drove rest of way home about 4hrs the next day. Was tired but did not go to bed until she did that night. Went to work for 12hrs Fri. Was exhausted. She worked over night Fri so I let her take a nap from 8-12:30. I woke up Sat took kids to parade come home and she got up at 1pm or so. After awhile I took a tried to take a nap and she woke me up. I was angry. I told her why I was angry but she thinks Its something else. That has made me even more angry. We have not spoke to each other much for 3 days now. Confused?!?!? Me too!
2006-09-11 19:06:19 · 16 answers · asked by wowwhatwasthat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tired people are grumpy people. You mismanaged your time, and it went downhill from there. Stop keeping score. This isn't worth fighting over.
Tell her you were reacting from being tired, and that you think it has gotten out of hand. Tell her you are sorry if you want to , but you can even skip that part if you don't want to. What you do have to do is tell her you miss her, and want to call a truce.
2006-09-11 19:19:31 · answer #1 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's feeling a little guilty about taken advantage of your kindness and doesn't know how to go about apologizing. Stick to your guns you are completely in the right!! I know exactly how you feel and it just is not fair. Let her think about it and maybe next time don't be so generous with your time and let her see what it's like. I know working night shifts is hard but come on if your both pulling the weight then the give and take should be mutual. She'll come around she's just being stubborn.
2006-09-12 02:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well gee, it sounds like a communication problem is all it is. U could've simply just told her u were tired and needed your nap and she could've just left u alone to take a nap. Really, this could've been handled in a much better way. U two better kiss and make up because a big fight over a nap is really stupid.
2006-09-12 03:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I wish my husband would let me sleep in for at least one day. I am up at 5:30 every day, get him off to work, go at it until at least 8-8:30 every night, stay up with him until he goes to bed and then right back at it the next day. My kids are grown now and at school but I don't remember him ever taking them out so I could rest. Your a thoughtful husband, but I don't think you should not speak to eachother, talking helps.
2006-09-12 02:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by goodbye 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you mad at her??????? you let her sleep from 8 am to 1 pm after working the entire night....and then you took the kids to parade while she was sleeping........you weren't gone very long with the kids......just how long do you spend with the kids to give mom a break????? Let me tell ya kids are hard these days.,.....and if she is working and trying to take care of them then more power to her as to waking your a.s.s up.....i am for her
2006-09-12 02:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were angry just because she wake u up? i think this is youre problem not hers.she was tired and u were kind with her and let her sleep, but why should u be angry when she wake u up?
maybe she just wanned to be with u and talk to u,and maybe u understood all wrong
2006-09-12 02:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to call her ASAP! the longer you wait, the more she will be convinced that there was something else. you need to look her in the eyes and tell her: "I swear, I was just tired. that's all" without any sign of anger or rejection!!!
by the way, I think she is overreacting. but don't tell her that!!! be very gentle
2006-09-12 02:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Milka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This could be PMT..........you never know, but also, if things have not been good in the past, she may be holding insecurities (baggage) But you get my vote for a hubby if alls above board. :)
2006-09-12 02:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, there is no other solution to your confusion but to talk with your wife...I mean seriously. Good luck! :)
2006-09-12 02:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by shuxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and forget about it. Life is too short to lose sleep over something like this. Oh... ah...sorry.
2006-09-12 02:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋