does it mean he s still thinking of me through these years? does he stl care for me? i havent seen him since we broke up 20 yrs ago, but i feel there s stl connection btwen us. am hapily married now. have heard also hes also married now. i do stl keep his cards and letters as part of my memory lane collection, thats all!
2006-09-11 19:01:47 · 14 answers · asked by taurus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That is unresolved issue. The "break up " was not complete, and that is why you still dream about him. If you have a clean, complete break up, that dream may be gone away. There may be some words, that you may not have said or you may have regret about something during the break up. That is why you keep dreaming of him because it is unresolved.
2006-09-12 03:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, there are two schools of thought regarding dreams. Freudian and Christian. As you may or may not know, frued thinks our dreams are merely an extension of our daily lives, struggles, etc. Through the bible, in which many prophecies were relayed through dreams, there is an entirely different thought. I have taken a course on the biblical principles of dream interpretation and it was totally fascinating. You may or may not be ready for what I am to say and don't dismiss it until you at least read it all and give it some thought.
Your ex-boyfriend (or it can even be a stranger in a dream whom you have that charged connection) represents Jesus. As interpreted this way, and it references Jesus in the bible as being our "bridegroom" and we are "His bride." He is our lover who gently and patiently waits for us to be ready for Him. He waits for us to gain the maturity and wisdom to choose Him over all of the "others." He is constantly lifting us up and giving his everything for us to see that it is Him whom we really desire.
Sometimes, I'm sure you've seen this, people go their whole lives embracing lovers who are completely wrong for them and harmful and at the same time rejecting the one who they would truly be happy with. Why do people do this? Because we are broken and don't know what's best for us! Because we feel that we don't deserve the best! Because we feel that if we embrace the "good guys" our lives will be boring! All lame answers if you ask me, but true. And I've done each of them.
This dream is a call from Jesus. He is beckoning you once again. Reminding you that He yearns for you. Giving you complete free will to ignore him, but knocking on your door once again. As Christians we are often called to wait on God. I also beleive that He waits on us as well. He yearns to have relationship and worship from each of us. He loves us so much and He is calling you unto him.
I hope I didn't freak you out too much but I saw your title and had to speak the truth. I heard a speaker once say that almost 1/3 of the bible is either an interpretation of a dream or the realization of one (through a prophecy) and I think it's probably close. Good luck with your dreams. You are truly blessed to have had this one.
By the way, I am so happy to hear that you are happily married, but you can have God and your husband. It's not cheating if you love Jesus.
2006-09-12 02:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by marjie8230 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person’s life is full of dreams. Dream can be about one’s ambition which he gets fulfilled with the passage of time thru his own hard work, intelligence, good planning and with the blessings of Almighty. Another is day dreaming which is really not a good habit and can be controlled with one’s will power. But what about the dreams a person experiences during sleep. Do they hv effect in our real life? What do they mean? What is their interpretation? The person asks to his friends, elders and seniors in his social circle. Sometimes he gets satisfactory reply and sometimes not. These days Internet is a rich source of information. So one does not need to depend on others for one’s dream interpretation. The Yahansmaniac Community member suggests the following.
http://dream-interpretation.readabout.net/
http://www.psychicguild.com/dream.php
http://www.insightful-dream-interpretation.info/dream-interpretation-free.html
http://www.edgarcayce.org/dreams/freedreaminterpretation.asp
http://www.spiritcommunity.com/free-dream-interpretation.htm
http://www.handresearch.com/hand/Evolutie/dream-interpretation.htm
http://www.dreamdoctor.com/
http://www.divinedivination.com/dreams.html
http://www.dream-guru.com/free-dream-interpretation.html
http://www.dreammoods.com/
http://www.spiritcommunity.com/
http://www.network54.com/Forum/106909/
Please visit the above pages to find the interpretation of your dreams and to satisfy your different queries about dreams. I hope, that should do it for you.
2006-09-12 10:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once you love someone you always love them. The dream is because your break with him has not been resolved in your mind for some reason. It has nothing to do with him thinking of you. You will always have that love connection but remember to keep it in it's rightful place, in the past.
2006-09-12 02:07:37 · answer #4 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really shouldn't feel guilty or looking for answers beyond what it is.. a dream..
all men imagine and dream of a hot model having sex with them even the most lyal man on the planet..
i always have my connection with my ex and wonder what if.. even when i lie to my current GF..
it only shows that you care about others.. as long you don't hurt anyone..
just enjoy those past happy memories and accept them..
2006-09-12 02:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by KnightSaber2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something may have triggered a memory, a song or a favorite food.
2006-09-12 02:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by starting over 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Memories are great treasures... And it is for keeps. You must have had a great time with him. Keep those memories alive and it does lift up your spirit every now and then.
2006-09-12 02:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by Zsa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, after 20 years,i mean there's nothing left to worry about right?
if u r happily married then don't mess ur life up!
2006-09-12 02:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your normal .in this world that is a bad thing .do not let your spouse no about this our he well do the same thing your doing making more out of this then need be .now go love that man of yours
2006-09-12 02:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in our life wen some remains dreams...some actions...some desires remain unfulfilled...we find smethn related 2 em in our dreams...
u shared a very good relationship wid dat person...dats for sure...forget da way how it ended...but something sure was good in it...
its a pleasent memory...it will always remain...cherish it...
2006-09-12 02:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋