Theres a girl whom I truly love. Thing is, she moved to Virginia from New Mexico because her father is in the army. Yes I do personaly know her, its not like I just met her on the internet. Anyway... I love her, but I feel us growing distant... We write to each other all the time and talk on the phone 2-3 times a week. Any suggestions on how to keep the love alive untill we can see eachother again?
2006-09-11 19:01:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I dont want to be going out with her while we are apart. I just dont my feelings for her to end before we see each other next.
2006-09-11 19:05:56 · update #1
you cant im sorry. if it stays close then its good, but if you're drifting apart theres not much you can do. i stayed close and tight with my man, and we stayed in 2 different continents for 8years! we getting married in december.
2006-09-11 19:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN stay close! Drifting apart isn't because you're losing your love for eachother, it's more than likely because you don't know how to stay connected when you can't be physically connected. Physical needs are just as important as emotional, and not in a sexual way. Think of it this way...A touch iniates a feeling, right? So lets say a soft touch from your loved one; it makes you feel it more than soft spoken words over a telephone do, correct? So if you're lacking a physical connection, you have to make up the difference in an emotional connection. Although you may miss her terribly, there is always hope to be happy with her and not drift apart until you can be with her once again. I say explore new ways to have fun with eachother, even if it's long distance! Imagination's the key. Good luck. :]
!*!True Love Knows No Bounds!*!
2006-09-12 02:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by *Elle Marie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old u both r,right?
maybe u can move to where she is....
2006-09-12 02:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋