You know, before we were married my wife could not do enough for me and up to the last month I had my breakfast in bed on the week ends, she made sure that all my needs were satisfied and could not wait to get her hands on my underpants. I actualy had to get up this morning and make my own tea. Why do woman ease off in a realationship after you have been married such a short while
2006-09-11 18:51:21 · 53 answers · asked by Redmonk 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she has landed the fish no need to fight it any more ,now flip and flop like a good man i mean fish
2006-09-11 19:03:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well sometimes we get to a point when we feel that we are being taken for granted that we will begin to put our foot down. Sometimes it's not expecting the cup of tea every morning and surprising her with a cup of tea and jumping into her nitie that will keep your cup of tea coming more often. It's not slacking off it's more like wanting a little something her way in return as a thank you for all those moments you treasure so much. Just a once in awhile thing to her.
2006-09-11 19:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Nikie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like your wife is a child by using the word rebelling in marriage theres give and take maybe she wants you to do the same things for her that she does for you,meaning if you give her breakfast in bed then maybe you will get breakfast in bed more often so try surprising her once in a while and make sure all of her needs are satisfied and not just your own you make it sound like its a bad thing that you had to fix your own breakfast you are an adult just like your wife is maybe shes eased off because you were showing her no appreciation for the thoughtful things she was doing for you because you were taking but never giving so try doing some of the thoughtful things that she does for you and Im sure she will start doing nice thoughtful things for you again like i said Marriage is about give and take.
2006-09-11 19:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe she has just realised that what you really needed was a "mother" and not a wife. When was the last time you washed her knickers? Maybe try treating her like a women and not your housemaid and all the attention will return. Anyway she should be lying in bed with you - not making your tea. Something very wrong in your bedroom if after a year your wife is desperate to get out of bed to wash your dirty undies - sad!!!!
2006-09-12 11:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by angelab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about you? What have you given in this relationship. Don't say that you are the guy earning for the family. Other than that? Do you help around the house or your wife has to do everything by herself? At least for once, have u made an attempt to wake up before her and make breakfast for her? She has shown you how loving,affectionate and dutiful she can be. So if on your part, you start showing how much you treasure her and the little things she does for you, all will be well again.
2006-09-11 18:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by peacelover 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This IS joke of the day right?This is a team effort here,same as all marriages-seems to me that you are letting the side down,whilst she is doing the work of the whole team!Cut the lady some slack bub-lead the way a little,show her how much you appreciate her efforts around the house,take some of the workload off her and get involved in what she does(its not "unmanly"!)it is a "together" thing.You have only been married roughly a year,if you carry on like this-whats it going to be like in 5 years,thats what you got to ask yourself!Best of..
2006-09-11 21:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are like that. Especially before marriage. Hmm and after...! Ok see if you are neglecting her. Sounds like she has been great to you.
Women sometimes do everything for the guy & then forget to have enough time for themselves. They get burnt out...
Other times some women marry for security & then just slack off/break their promises/change back to the way they really are.
Look closely at what the women answer here.
They will tell you what you want (or don't want to!) know. Good luck & remember if she really loves you, just talk to her. Wait till she is in a good mood, compliment her and then ask.
2006-09-11 19:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you married me, you'd make your own tea. That has always been the rule at our house. Make yourself something to drink...unless you are sick or choking! Then, someone will help. If you are grown enough to be married, you are big enough to wait on yourself. When I was four years old, my family gave me permission to open the fridge and get out anything I wanted. I am passing the torch to you! Tell your wife I gave you permission to use the refridgerator without adult supervision!
According to what you said...You're still "wearing the pants" , they are just underpants!
2006-09-11 19:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh how tragic, you poor man, my heart bleeds for you! How terrible to have to get up and make your own cup of tea!
Seriously, what do you mean, she's "rebelling"?? She's your wife, not your child. Marriage is about give and take. Perhaps she's just tired of being the one doing all the giving and wants to see if you care for her like she's been caring for you. My man and I do a lot for each other, because we love each other, not because one of us thinks we have some kind of right to expect the other to be our slave.
You need to start appreciating her for all that she has done for you, not resent her for not jumping whenever you snap your fingers, or you will lose her.
2006-09-11 21:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better have a good look at yourself, not just first thing in the morning. Find out what it takes to make a relationship work, or it won't only be a cup of tea that won't be there in the mornings.
2006-09-12 04:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Chelski2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What??? Are you serious??? If you wre my husband Im ensure your "tea" was at boiling point and bloody pour it over you for being such an obnoxious prick! Did it ever occur to you that maybe she thought she might receive what she gave and that you must might pull your lazy **** out of the bed and make her her breakfast in bed??? Men like you boil me to the bone - women stopped being slaves for their husbands back in the 1700s - whilst yes of course its nice for a woman to look after her huband - its even nicer when they return the gesture.
2006-09-11 21:16:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋