2006-09-11 18:20:16 · 17 answers · asked by CHEYENNE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For my divorce.
2006-09-11 18:23:25 · update #1
Thanks guys.
2006-09-11 18:29:18 · update #2
Yes why not especially if shes been there for you and also if the divorce is ugly and by you saying mediation I have to assume its gotten ugly so yes you will need her to support you but your soon to be ex is not going to be happy so prepare yourself especially if shes the jealous vindictive type who is still full of anger because you moved on.Please be prepared for Drama and make sure your sig other knows this in advance.
2006-09-11 18:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. If this is mediation for a divorce between you and
your ex. NNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!
This will instantly put your ex on the defense. It is one thing
letting your fiancee know what's going on, BUT, it's another
to have her right there with the ex. You are looking for trouble
if you go there. I'm speaking from experience. Good Luck.
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2006-09-12 01:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....it wouldn't look good on your part in the eyes of the mediator. I'm sure you would like the support but be strong and go it alone, this should be between you and your ex. You can call your fiance before you go in and as soon as you get out if it helps but other than that it's in your best interest to go alone. Just being honest....Good Luck!
2006-09-12 01:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mediation for what? Is it to be able to communicate with that person or for something else? This is not all that clear. If you need to take your fiancee to some one else to make your feelings known to them, it's not much of a relationship. I would reconsider marriage if I were you.
2006-09-12 01:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by pleeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great way to end mediation!!! You must be joking...right?? Your soon to be ex is not going to be in sharing mood when she spots your new hottie holding hands with you. I would leave her at McDonald's while you are in mediation. She should have fun with her happy meal toy.
2006-09-12 01:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by sassilass06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Why would you? It's not necessary. Finalize the divorce with your first wife... then let your fiance be involved in all of your affairs after that... when the door has been completely closed on the marriage that you're in now.
2006-09-12 01:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mediation for what?
2006-09-12 01:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm probably not. show your soon to be ex wife a little respect..
2006-09-12 01:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by chelle7usa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, unless you have secrets to keep
2006-09-12 01:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to? If she distracts you - No. If she calms you - Yes.
2006-09-12 01:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Russ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋