Hi friends,
I have a friend, very healthy, good looking, non drinker non smoker and an amazing guy..
Recently , his relationship has gone for a toss as he is suffering from 'premature ejaculation' and this has taken a toll on him.
He is really in trouble, can anybody tell how to help him .?
2006-09-11 17:34:10 · 9 answers · asked by maanuv B 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
If he will take care of business before he gets down to business, it might lend some staying power. A condom might also dull the sensation a bit & allow him to last longer.
Tell your "friend" its ok to post his own questions. LOL
2006-09-11 17:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Premature ejaculation can be cured with natural methods. One really good one you can follow is http://www.goobypls.com/r/rd.asp?gid=565
When a man is suffering from premature ejaculation, he is often climaxing before his partner and in the case of most men it is difficult if not impossible for them to continue intercourse after ejaculating. That’s because chemicals are released when a man ejaculates and these are the same chemicals that make a person feel sleepy and/or not aroused. It’s not that they have suddenly lost interest; just their brain is telling them that the sex is over. This effect is more prominent after intercourse than after masturbation because intercourse actually causes four times more of these chemicals to be released. If premature ejaculation occurs frequently, it can lead to embarrassment for the man and sexual frustration for both partners.
Hope it helps.
2014-09-11 03:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three suggestions.
1-have his prostate looked at-checked out.
2-there is a exercise he can to, woman also can to this. It's called the "Kegel exercise"..where you squeeze and hold your muscles around the meatus (pee-hole) and hold for five seconds and release. Repeat 10x. It strengthens the muscles all down there and may help in cases such as this.
3-he could be just going through "mental" changes and needs time to. A break up/divorce, etc in allot to go through for anyone. That would effect the psychic status. In time, he may need to see a shrink?
Hope this helps..
Sabrina, RN,BSN (Nurse)
2006-09-11 17:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by sdrose17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should do nothing at all. He is normal - when you come - you come - It's over and done with. he must not blame himself.
Jerking off before intercourse sometimes helps delay the next orgasm. Opiates can slow it down a lot (codeine, Demerol, etc.etc.) Valium & other tranquilizers can help a bit , too.
Your friend sounds perfectly normal to me - tell him stop feeling bad. His body is functioning like God designed it to - pure & simple.
2006-09-11 18:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of sex = no stamina = premature ejaculation. Not around it enough to control the pleasure sensors.
Could be stress, medicines being taken, even some vitamins can cause problems down in man land.
2006-09-11 17:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They make condoms with a desensitizing gel in them, Trojan or Durex, called "Extended Pleasure", I think. But they're almost too much, you sometimes can't get off at all.
2006-09-11 17:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the truth ALL MEN ARE PREMATURE EJACULATORS and I'm a guy so tell your friend that every body's like that it should help
2006-09-11 17:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest reading up on it. If you want a great book try this, http://prematureejaculation.ixanda.com
2006-09-15 13:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by elucidexinc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can an ejaculation be premature? I mean, isn't that the goal?!?
2006-09-11 17:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, don't hold your breath
2006-09-11 17:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋