I feel inadequate.. I feel i was given oppurtunities in life but its too much for me to handle..I feel i'm not that good at anything.. so i tend to withdraw and immerse myself in leisure activities..And I find it therapeutic for me to give advice to other persons. I know most of us can give advice, but its also hard to deal with our own problems.
2006-09-11 17:25:14 · 9 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you always feel that you are struggling with life, because you want to compete with the goals, as set by others for you, but my question to you is why? Why don't you set your own goals and try to achieve them.
The world around you will never let you live freely, everytime you put up to their expectations, their expectations would go a level higher and thus you would not be happy.
My advice to you is that you should set your own goals, give your best to them, try to achieve them and feel good, because the world around will itself look good if you are happy, may be it works
2006-09-11 17:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by the_best 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the root of your problem is that you are not confident in yourself and do not believe that you can achieve anything great in life..
Since you think are you are likely to fail, you would rather choose the easy way out and just relax.
However, the fact that you can give advice shows that you do know what to do and have wat it takes.. you just need a little courage to take the first step and a little confidence to move on..
I was very much like you as well. until i attended a seminar tat really changed my life. I found confidence in myself and felt worthy of good things in life again and now I have a great career, a loving and happy family and would like to pay it forward ;)
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2006-09-12 01:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with you. I just can't seem to find my place in this life. I know we come back again until we find our place. I am good at giving advice also and I enjoy helping people so maybe in our next lives we should be some kind of counslor...I look at my sister who has worked at her job for 30 years. I call her a redwood because she knows how to be still. I on the other hand am pollin lolol I can't settle.
2006-09-12 00:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are merely a product of our society. We can no longer simply strive to keep up with the Joneses. We have to keep up with the Hiltons.
Just live your life, live within your means, and make some kind of contribution. You don't have to be superman. Just be a decent human being.
2006-09-12 00:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. Talk to friends. Life is hard and many people of all ages go through what you are experiencing.
2006-09-12 00:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by nittanyisland2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down and think honey! You really need too! Your smart I can tell just do likr ya would with an answer and think
2006-09-12 00:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by cowboygene2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not alone. i feel like i won't success and i would just crash and burn. i guess a feeling of too high expectations and fear of failing.
2006-09-12 00:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by :)<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start small. You're backing off because of fear of failure.
You can do it.
2006-09-12 00:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by ladyalmalthea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh me too i've wasted so many opportunities!! you're not alone at all!!!
2006-09-12 00:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by whatwhatwhat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋