Do you believe that some people are really unlucky?
2006-09-11 17:18:04 · 11 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Some studies show that people who hold negative thoughts attract similar people and are also more likely to see themselves as victims. Alternatively, one may take responsibility for situations, good or bad, and feel empowered by discovering or creating opportunities to either change the situation, or change how they feel about it.
2006-09-11 17:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by happymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You actually can choose to focus on the good, it is sort of a broadcastable wave of good attitude that is self perpetuating. Even when bad things happen, there is usually a good or possitive side to things. Yes, somepeople are lucky and most are unlucky but it is a psychology of luck is real. I am considered consistantly extremely lucky. Also, wanting to help people and solve problems is in the same objectives as most of the religions ideas of angels, so you are sort of in league with Karma, angels, or high intensions of most religions, so that is a perpetuating attitude of goodness.
2006-09-12 00:34:12 · answer #2 · answered by ebiz1@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad things will happen as long as we are imperfect. Some may seem as you term it "unlucky" because they put themselves in certain situations or they may just be naturally clumsy or don't pay attention to warnings.
You can prevent a WHOLE LOT by following the rules.
2006-09-12 00:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
luck doesn't play part of it at all i don't believe...some people just make bad decision in there life...i mean we if we didn't have bad luck in our life some people never change from bad to good...and of course some people will never change it is had u make ur life worth living...if u think u or someone u know have bad luck all the time keep trying until the good comes along
2006-09-12 00:30:37 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All decisions have consequences.
Some consequences don't happen right away, they may even effect the rest of your life, sometimes it may take many years before you even realise what the results of your decion is.
Sooooo.....
make wise decisions.
You can do that by learning from the experiences of others.
Finally show me your friends and I will know all about you, in other words pick your friends (and mentor models) very carefully.
2006-09-12 00:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by so-lobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some people make decisions in their life that are unwise and by virtue of cause and effect bad things happen in their life. I think some people are born into situations (like poverty) that are almost impossible to extract one's self from. But I don't think luck plays any role whatsoever. What doesn't result from one's own choices results from chance - and chance and luck are entirely separate characters.
2006-09-12 00:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't sweetie.They all happened for a reason.Why?Well,Because I been thought that you learn from them of what happens.Good luck sweetie.
2006-09-12 00:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma- do unto others as you would have done to you. but be careful not to let others walk all over you.
2006-09-12 00:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by andreadawn99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but then some people just put themselves in those situations.
2006-09-12 00:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it's so very evident that you can't turn to God. You need to learn to do that. That's what's wrong.
2006-09-12 00:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by SheDevil 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋