2006-09-11 16:46:36 · 22 answers · asked by nasreen_ali2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your husband didn't look at other women then I would say something is wrong,I point out women to my husband,good looking women and women who I won't say are ugly but not so good looking,It never bothers me who he looks at.You have to remember he married you for a reason,and he is with you,and no matter how many women he looks at he comes home to you doesn't he.And be honest you know if some tall handsome guy with dreamy eyes comes walking bye you have to look.It is human nature.
2006-09-11 16:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by mytifine_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, from the mans perspective. When I look at a woman, im usually seeing if she compares to my wife. (yes im married going on 3 years) Her shape, bust size, length of the legs, her facial features. With this I can day dream about what it would be like to be with her, usually about 3 seconds. This dosn't mean I want to be with her over my wife, or that i would leave my wife for her. It is just what ''if'' that would have happened. Far as the answer to the question...my parents have been married for 30 years and still quarrel, so I think it is a healthy part of marrage. I think it shows the other that they are still interested and still worthy of the ring.
2006-09-11 16:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the woman is insecure, has poor self esteem and an inferiority complex,it then is natural to quarrel with ones husband for looking at a girl
2006-09-11 16:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very natural to bicker with your hubby about paying more attention to someone else rather than you. Men, like women, are sexual beings, and appreciate an attractive female. Make it a point to stare at other men in his presence. I don't mean just stare, I mean undress the guy your checking out with your eyes and maybe flash a flirty smile. Ignore your man for several minutes just so he knows how it feels.
2006-09-11 17:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have come to the conclusion that most men just can't help themselves. They're not dead, even when they're married! It's the look, don't touch, method of toleration on the wife's part.
My ex was great at swiveling his head to watch girls go down the street. One day, I was feeling particularly feisty and I pulled over when he did that. "Do you want me to get out and introduce you?" If his head swiveled again, he did it on the sly. It taught him a lesson!
PS If a wife was caught doing this, she'd catch living hell from her husband for her audacity. It's such a double-standard!
2006-09-11 17:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately men are not as subtle as women are when it comes to looking at the opposite sex. Yes, the answer to your question is yes. You get upset with him because you feel he may be comparing you to this other woman, or you may feel threatened by his actions. You will confront him with this and that is where the argument starts.
Remember this though, if you love him and he loves you then it is all water under the bridge. As the old saying goes, you can look at the menu but you can never order!
2006-09-11 16:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by val h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband not only looks at other women and girls, he looks for "working girls" and points them out to me. He tells me about the nice "plastic ****" he saw at work and the way some women's pubic area was shaved.
He even told a young waitress that she looked "good enough to eat".
He used to become enraged at me when I told him this type of behavior was not acceptable.
Now I just ignore it. Because I've decided I'm going to be leaving him soon.
If it bothers you and he loves you, he should respect that and be a little more discreet. He's always going to look, but you shouldn't feel like you don't compare.
2006-09-11 21:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, there's a difference between "just looking" and actually oogling and gawking at another woman while the wife is around. If your husband is doing the "gawking" type of look while with u, this is disrespectful and he should stop doing this, especially in your presence.
2006-09-11 16:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to be mad at a man, but not to quarrel. After all excuses or not he is still a man.
2006-09-11 16:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by binkisoto79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to feel a bit jealous. Hey you've got nothing to loose. When men knows that you are. They keep doing it. Ignore him and act as if you did not notice. And do the same thing, I tell you he will go nuts....
2006-09-11 17:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Zsa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋